Reoccurring dreams about my missing cat?

I had a cat that I was very close to. She went missing about 4 years ago and still to this day I get that hollow feeling in my chest when thinking about her. I have not felt the connection I had with her, with any other cat. I have cats now. I love them but it's just not the same. Anyway, even after all this time, I have dreams about her. In about 80% of these dreams I end up finding her somewhere. I am overjoyed and amazed that I found her.
This is where it gets confusing... I'll put her in a backpack (I have no idea why it's always a backpack) because I don't want her to go missing again. But before the dream ends I knowingly let her "free" and I'll watch her walk away or I'll sit her down and before I know it, she's gone. I always find her in different places; old neighborhoods I've lived in; places I've never seen; or by my current house.
I dream about her AT LEAST once a month. She was just an awesome cat. Is it normal that I have these reoccurring dreams about her? Is it because I miss her so much?

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  • I think it's normal. I've had recurring dreams for years too about 2 cats I had that went missing around the same time. They were twins. I dreamed about them last night again too. Many of my dreams are about things I have lost in life even if they were long ago. I don't think it ever goes away.

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    • I guess there's just certain animals that steal our heart. If it doesn't ever go away then I'm find with that. It's nice to be able to see her in my dreams so often.

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  • Mowme

    What your dreams mean; it means you have to physically walk around at night and look for your cat. Your cat was trapped somewhere maybe in a shed or crawl space or garage and he is in pain all he can do is think about you and hope that you find him. That’s why you have dreams because your cat is thinking about you needing you to save him! This same exact thing happened to me and I heard my cat crying from underneath a neighbors house trapped in her crawl space! So go look now hope it’s not too late look all night so you can hear his cry’s

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  • Thelaconicallsocialist

    I have an inquisition about my dreaming too: I think everyone has a dream that circulates every so often, and for me, it's a small boy in an abandoned aquarium. I've only been to about three aquariums before, but this little boy lives there with his mother. And it's so strange, how details of strange phenomena can work their way into repetitive dreams, like your cat and how you put her in the backpack, and then release her. And not always is it something we have a mourning for, as for my friends and family have a mix of memory and questioning. But it is, from my analytical observations, normal to have dreams stuck on replay.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think you're still mourning the loss and your subconscious is trying to settle any unresolved issues you have concerning your grief.

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    • You're probably right. She went missing a few days before I witnessed my neighbors two dogs kill my other cat that I loved so much. I mourned the loss of my cat that got killed and always had hope that I'll find my other cat.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Oh gosh, that is a lot of deep emotional trauma! No wonder you're dreaming about the kitty. I hate aggressive animals! I'm truly sorry you had to witness that. Did you call the authorities on your neighbors?

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        • Yes, we did. They took the two dogs away but the neighbors got them back the next day. I live in a state where there isn't any laws for animal cruelty, even when a dog kills someone else's pet.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Oh, that sucks! I think those dogs should have been put down. What kinda dogs were they?

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            • I think so too. One was a border collie mix, I believe. I can't remember what the other one looked like.

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