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Hi, i am 17 and i just feel really lonely. I am not the most popular girl in school i have a small group of friends and i get invited to some parties but not many. is it normal that i haven't had a boyfriend yet? i know so many lovely couples and i don't see why i am so different to them. I am not the skinniest girl but i wouldn't say i am the fattest either but no one seems to look at me. Do you think me being quite flat chested could have something to do with it? I just want to know if i'm the only one, thats what it feels like any guy i try and talk to ignores me.

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  • fullmoon

    You're young. At the age of 17 guys are all a bunch of horny immature idiots. They aren't worth your time. You need to stop comparing yourself with other girls. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look. Start learning how to embrace and love yourself. Get comfortable in your own skin. You don't need someone else's approval to feel good about yourself. You sound like you are searching for something that might be wrong with you that might make you undesirable to men. You're not going to find it. You are just surrounded by a bunch of mindless spineless morons who can't see past their nose or think about anything except their own penises. Be glad they ignore you, it is saving you a lot of effort!

    P.S. We are all lonely. Welcome to the club! :D

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  • WhisperingHeartSyndrome

    There's nothing wrong with you, fullmoon is right. I'm 20 years old and for the first time in my life I've found a guy who likes me and can tolerate all my weirdness. Guess what? He likes me for who I am and not the size of my chest. I know it seems like you're the only one, but trust me it's worth it when you find someone really special.

    Lonely doesn't have to be sad, learn who you are and learn to love that person, because you'll love yourself better than anyone can. You're worth more than what any guy thinks about you.

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  • iindia

    If you are uncomfortable with yourself act on it. Work on eating healthy, study hard, choose flattering clothes, SMILE, and progress everyday of your life until you hit the grave. Life is about learning and growing. Track your progress with journals and charts. Create standards for yourself and follow them. I've dated women with small cup sizes, no one could touch their energy or personality. That's what its about energy, vitality.

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  • EverythingTaylored

    Trust me, very good thing in a way; when you are older all the girls that were partying and having sex in high school will be jelous because you waited longer than them.

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  • Energy

    You'll find someone someday. Maybe try to open up more, and become outgoing? Whatever makes you happy, but being outgoing does save you from lonliness, atleast in my opinion anyway.

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