Relationship with someone but just turn out to be friends......

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I was wondering if it's normal that you have this relationship with a girl and it only lasts a month, but it felt like it lasted forever. I had strong feelings for her but she just wants to stay friends. I don't have these feelings for her anymore and it seems like if I feel like I don't give a shit that she doesn't talk to me anymore, she comes back trying to argue with me on why I'm treating her like shit. The reason she broke up with me was because of my family and the fact that she didn't feel comfortable that she thought they didn't like her. I would have to say that is an excuse. Every time we hang out and she wants to sleep over we end up having sex or close to it sometimes like touching each other and practically dry humping or more. What the hell is going on?! Is this normal? Would this constitute as a fuck buddy? And now she's asking me if it's possible to live together? Help me out world :)

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    She still has feelings. When people breakup for dumb reasons they normally do have feelings. She broke up with you because of your family not because of you. Also feelings don't die in a day, you should've waited 2 months before being friends.

    I was in a similar situation. Let me guess... "treating her like shit" translates into : "you don't talk to me anymore" "why don't you make time out of your schedule for me? "You don't notice me anymore!"

    You're not a bad guy. Sit her down and say it's best for everybody if you guys see eachother less. Now she will hate that comment. But you have to stay away from her.

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  • smashingpumpkinator
    13 years ago

    hahahahaha.. do you want to live with her is the question?

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  • follow_me_down
    13 years ago

    She is what I refer to as a "catch and release".
    She acts like she wants you badly when you give up chasing her, but as soon as she has you..she wants nothing long term. I'd drop her and tell her to get her priorities in order before you will let her sleep with you.

    You need time to recover from your strong feelings for her. And tell her that. Unless you are happy with this arrangement? I wouldn't be, but then again I'm fairly old-fashioned.

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    • orlybro
      13 years ago

      What if I just kept her around to just mess around? I would think you would disagree with that as well?

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      • follow_me_down
        13 years ago

        Well like I said..you just seemed unhappy with the arrangement in your story..unless you came on here to just ask if its normal. In the strictest sense of normal..its probably not. But if it fits your life, more power to you.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Don't live in the same house with that drama queen...it would be hell!

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    • orlybro
      13 years ago

      What you think would happen?

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