Relationship with nancy

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I was in a relationship with my ex wife because we wanted to try again, lasted for 3 months. During our relationship we had sex twice and she said it didn't feel right, so we stopped. Our relationship didn't work because we argued a lot, just like when we were married, she had an affair. Don't judge. I forgave and forgot and my ex wife and I wanted to stay friend's for the sake of our daughter, we're still friend's. We haven't been together for a year and I liked this girl I've known for five years, I was to shy to tell her how I felt about her.

Nancy and I was taking a walk and I finally did tell her how I felt, she felt the same way. We started dating. We've been together for a month and I realized, I've been wanting to have sex with her, but it's too soon. A year without sex bothers me that much.

We ended up having sex.

She told me she really liked it and I'm feeling miserable having sex with her that soon. I've been wanting to talk to her about it, I need help, advice.

Please don't judge. We all make mistakes.

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  • LuxM4G
    8 years ago

    You have no reason to feel guilty. It depends if your religious, but that aside I'd say you did nothing wrong, to Nancy or your ex wife.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Just don't rush into anything like you did with the last wife. It's okay to meet someone new.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Nothing to be miserable about that I can see: no-one got hurt and you finally broke your one year drought.

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  • mlbryan44
    8 years ago

    Nancy sucked me off and swallowed my load! Just sayin'...

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    • Jet
      8 years ago

      How about you go suck on a cock and choke on it you piece of shit! You don't even know Nancy and you have no right to talk about her like that!

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      • mlbryan44
        8 years ago

        Its the truth. Her brown hair bobbing up and down...

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  • Jet
    8 years ago

    You guys are awesome. I'm definitely going to tell her we need to slow down. I guess Nancy told her friends and they are saying the same thing, slow the fuck down. My friends even say, "it didn't work with Eun and your marriage since thing's went fast, slow down with Nancy. Yeah Eun cheated on you and it took a lot to trust someone again, do you trust Nancy and her instinct?" I trust Nancy, sorta. It's trust that I have issues with. I get where they are coming from now. So, I'm going to for sure talk to her about it.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago

    I like to take my time also and there is nothing wrong with it , I don't think it has to be for everyone . It's just something that works better for me , I want to get to know the woman and make it more about connecting mentally and emotionally before getting physical . I don't mind kissing and touching in affectionate manners but I definitely try to hold off on the intercourse , let my body and senses become familiar with them , let them become "home" to me . I see nothing wrong with you have sex a month in , if it hasn't ruined your relationship , what's the big deal? If its too fast however , simply tell her she felt great with you but you prefer to take it slower , you want to rewind and continue getting to know her then resume the sex . I am glad you had the sex after all that time though , I think that makes it much harder to hold off my friend!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Wow, you seem to have more hang ups about sex than a catholic girl. I seriously would suggest some therapy; sex is supposed to be fun.

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