Rejecting guys makes me feel sick. iin?

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I have so far been met 3 guys who I met online. One of them I chatted to for months before we met in real life, another one I chatted to for 4 weeks before we met face to face, and the most recent one we only chatted a week before we met in person.

Every single time, I have found it extremely hard rejecting these guys. I feel sorry for them, and for some reason I feel guilty for not liking them. Is this normal? Or am I overly sensitive? Is there a way for me to get over this feeling?

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  • dude_Jones
    9 years ago

    You can't make yourself like them if you don't. Accept that.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Maybe there's a better place than online to meet guys?

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  • sandraasiilva
    9 years ago

    It's normal you're feeling that way. But you have to do it, be honest. you'll feel worst if you continue give him false expectations and later break it up.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    9 years ago

    Yup. Super normal. Would you rather lead him on? And make yourself miserable? And form even more pain with a doomed relationship?

    Trust me its easier on you and him when you reject. He will appreciate your honesty.

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