Regular marijuana use

This one's kind of complicated; I'd appreciate if you read all the way through!
Throughout high school, I was completely sober. Never drank, never smoked, despite having many social issues (Unstable family situation and I'm a total introvert, among other things).
When I came to college, I became friends with people who had very similar music taste to me, but they smoked weed every day multiple times a day. Eventually, I tried it and enjoyed it, but only smoked socially once or twice a week. I didn't wind up buying weed until the summer before sophomore year, and I used a homemade Sobe waterfall bong (glass, NOT plastic) for the summer so as to conserve money. To me, buying a pipe or a bong was a serious investment in the drug which I was not ready for. When I returned to college, continued smoking almost daily. I have taken 5-12 day breaks every few months, and I never have withdrawal symptoms. I don't have intense cravings for weed, and I can have lots of fun when I'm not high, but I like the way I can focus on things when I'm high. A month ago, I bought a vaporizer, because I didn't (and still don't) enjoy smoking at all, but I still like the feeling of being high. I don't like to get STONED (sit on my couch and do nothing, zone out, be totally unproductive), I like to get HIGH (clean my room, do homework, listen to and analyze music). I don't take more than a couple hits because I’m not into getting “fucked up.” I realized also that if I take a hit before I sit down to do some homework, I’m able to get around almost every mental block I usually have (“I CAN'T DO IT, IT'S TOO DIFFICULT” kind of stuff). I've never gone to class high or taken tests high. Also, my last semester’s grades were better than any I’d had since 8th grade, and it was the first semester I used marijuana regularly. I drink rarely, and only socially, and almost never to excess. I have a $40 a month limit that I set for myself on marijuana, and if I use up what I have before it’s time to buy new weed, then too bad for me. I feel like I’m in control, but when I think I want to stop for a little, I wind up using it anyway (but still maintain a high level of productivity).

Currently, I vaporize every day (with occasional one or two day breaks every few weeks). I just want to get some opinions on all of this. Any constructive feedback would be fantastic. Thanks!!

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  • browndoll

    Stop getting high. When its time to get a job you're gonna be sorry. Stop being a loser pothead.

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  • ilvtrees

    First off..Don't listen to these fools half of them just recite what they learned in dare. It's not going to harm you. As long as you are being responsible and taking care of your responsibilities than there is no harm. As long as your still motivated. Vaping is a great way to use mj. You can also eat your vaped material by making firecrackers or something similar. I live in NorCal and I use almost a 8 a day/every other day. But I'm a productive member of society as well. Check out reddit.com/r/trees ;)

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  • capcrunch6

    You sound like you are trying to convince yourself you are being responsible, and denying the fact that you have a drug problem. There is no such thing as a non-addicted drug user. Besides there are many ways to relieve stress that will not cause harm to you or land you in prison. Take my advice, honey, and kick the pot.
    :-)

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  • Squambly+

    I usually don't agree with people using marijuana more than once a day but in your case your being productive using it the right way. I wish more people used it like you :)

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  • Dontbehateful

    One argument that. Says it all marijuana safer than alcohol!!!

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  • hailes77654

    Even though you're handling the drug pretty well, hopefully you know what it can do to you. Two words. Stop now.

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  • penrose5833

    Soo, I'm not really sure where to begin. You didn't withdraw because marijuana is not a physically addicting drug but it is addicting in the sense of a social addiction. As for getting better grades when your high idk, I went from being an A and B student to having all D's and a C however one of my good friends and his brother (who sells weed and is by far the biggest pot head I ever met) both get straight A's and always have in highschool and college and they hit the bong or smoke a joint all day everyday and joke about getting highscore if your high. I personally didn't have as good of luck and ended up getting arrested and doing drug court and going to group (all for weed nothing else which I thought was weird) but nonetheless I haven't smoked for like 5 years and physically feel a lot healthier and have more money. A lot more money. 40 dollars a month is ridiculous you must smoke like nothing cuz that would not last me week.

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  • Myway75

    I personaly don't do it but know alot of people who enjoy it. I don't think there is anything wrong with token up as long as u have lots of food in the fridge and a safe place to pass out! Lol

    Bottom line is u do u!! As long as you are not in danger or putting other people in danger.

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  • punx

    Fuck anyone that says its bad! ITS GOOD!! And even better that you have control! Respect.

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  • paradoxinsoxs

    It's not a drug it's a herb and it should be used for it's medical benefits. Like you just talked about here.

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  • screaminasian

    people that end up like useless lumps of garbage cause they smoke weed all the time are that way because that's their personality. you seem to me to be a "non-detestible person": rare form.

    keep yourself in control so you don't end up being a piece of shit stoner.
    well done so far

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  • sweetest_strawberry

    Don't worry about anything. It's ok that you like to smoke weed, its a natural grown herb and highly misunderstood. Marijuana is very simple.. it boosts appetite, calms nerves, and does help some people focus. so if you feel comfortable doing it then just forget everyone and do what you want. dont listen to other people trying to make you feel bad. just CHILL.=] Because it is illegal you can get in a but load of trouble, so be smart and know when you have a drug test.

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  • moosedog_ck

    Sounds like you're doing it right. You may run into a problem if you develop a tolerance for pot. Most smokers do increase and decrease their usage in cycles to avoid developing a tolerance. As far as I'm concerned, you're norml.

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  • Nazuro

    I think you should do what you like. You are still young and there is plenty of time to quit. Make sure that if you begin breaking your own rules you stop.

    When you do stop find something to fill the time when you would normally be smoking, like running or cooking.

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  • lightseeker

    to JAF00LI - you would be correct if I was smoking, but I'm not. I'm vaporizing, which eliminates the harmful effects of smoking. Basically, I just get the THC and no tar or anything. I've been using my vaporizer for a month now and my body feels a million times better, I can sing pretty well again, and I can run longer.

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  • SeanL

    WTF YOU DONT HAVE A PROBLEM, you have a problem once you are getting in trouble alot with the law and that probably wont happen from weed use TRUST me usually happens with coke or Meth then u have a problem when ur snortin rails 24/7 and don't give a fuck bout anything, But u can smoke weed multiple times a day and be fine well at least thats how I see my experience as.

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  • lightseeker

    I have read about it, and I'm not concerned that it's illegal. I actually decided yesterday that I'm going to see if I can take a break until next Wednesday so as to rebuild my tolerance.
    Alcohol prohibitionists had the same argument as those against marijuana today, which seems to be, "there are some crazies out there who abuse the drug like there's no tomorrow," but in reality, vaporization makes it safer than alcohol by a longshot. Hopefully someday the corruption will come to an end and people will realize that Marijuana users are not all couch-locked, unproductive people in the same way that not all people who drink Alcohol are drunk all the time, or even drink to excess.

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  • lightseeker

    You have no idea whether I've had a job before or whether I currently hold a job (I've had jobs before, no I don't have one because I'm a student and my parents are extremely kind). If you can explain to me why marijuana is so bad, maybe I'd respect your opinion, but that's an awful argument. I don't intend to work in a cubicle for my whole life. I'm in school for music and I can play 7 instruments, so don't call me a "loser" before you understand my accomplishments in life.

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  • You seem like a normal adult toker to me.
    There's no need to get silly-baked every time you light up; some people don't understand that, especially the ones who don't do it ever.

    Usually, I find that the people who tend to ABUSE weed and give all the normal pot smokers a bad name are: 1) really psychologically screwed up in the first place, 2) new & naive users who take dumb risks, 3)too young (teenagers) to be toking up on anything.

    So, good for you and for me, and all the other people out there who think and use like us, for being positive ambassadors for the marijuana community! One day, it WILL be legalized!

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  • JAF00LI

    dude its normal to use drugs often. and its only weed which is pretty much as harmful as tobacco. only difference is it can damage your brain, but it has high effect whereas tobacco has no effect.

    anyway id say limit your self first for a few months or longer of doing it every 2 days instead of every day. once you have got into routine of this, then try every 3 days. and so on. until you get to the point where you do it once a week. then from there you can expand into once every 2 weeks, once every 3 weeks, once a month, once every 2 months. and so on.

    slowly you will get out of damaging yourself in a few years time trying this routine. cos dude doing it as much as you do, is not healthy. and as much as you don't realise it, it may have already done permanant damage to you and is gradually doing worse.

    but its only weed its not to big a deal as long as you stay in control and dont let addiction take over. cos theres nothing worse than addiction to a drug. and it seems your growing addiction levels to it already.

    all the best, hope that will help

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  • conquerer117

    Personally, I think you are utilizing the drug very effectively for beneficial mental health benefits. Its apparent by the sophistication (i.e good grammer and spelling) that you aren't abusing the substance, so you shouldn't be concerned. Disregard the fact that its considered an "illicit drug" because the Federal Narcotics Bureau and other government entities have deemed it "dangerous". If you read the article attached in the link from drugwarrant.com, it will hopefully relive any distress you are feeling.

    http://www.drugwarrant.com/articles/why-is-marijuana-illegal/

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