Really need some advice

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I have a problem in the bedroom that I don't know how to bring up or if I even should, I go down on her constantly, if I'm honest it's not something I find particularly enjoyable but I like the idea of pleasing her, but she never goes down on me, in fact she doesn't have anything to do with my penis outside actual intercourse

This is a problem for me because I prefer getting a blowjob to sex by quite a bit, but I'm not a pushy guy and would only want her to do it if it was something she would enjoy doing, I'm not sure if she doesn't do it because she doesn't enjoy it or maybe she feels like she doesn't know what she's doing,

I don't know if I should bring it up, I don't want it to appear like I only go down on her so she'll do it back, I enjoy the idea of getting her off but at the same time as much as I don't like feeling this way I get a little frustrated the way I'm expected to go down on her but she's never even entertained the idea if getting me off, and I find it even more frustrating seeing as I want a blowjob more than sex right now

How do you think I should approach this? Any advice would be great

Oh and hygene isn't an issue, i'm a very clean person

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  • IINtobeonthiswebsite
    8 years ago

    You gotta TALK about it...if you don't bring it up, how is she gonna know? Read your mind?

    Maybe she doesn't like all the oral you give her....maybe she'd rather you did something else?

    No communication in the sack is gonna result in you not knowing, wondering, and lead you to ask these dumb questions on stupid web sites like this.

    Maybe you're with the wrong broad? If you would rather have The Oral, and, she's not into that, then, and it means a lot to you, maybe you need to dump her and find someone who IS into the oral.

    BTW - I am not a smoker, and couldn't SEE myself with a smoker, they STINK, BUT, if you just want to get a good hummer and, you can see your way past the disgusting smell of a dirty old ash tray, I hear that chicks who smoke are WAY into sucking dick...I mean, stop and think about it....they are willing to put that in their mouth, they'll put ANYTHING in their mouth!

    On that note, maybe go to a cigar store or a hooka lounge, find broads there. I have seen some pretty damn hot chicks smoking cigars....again, the thought being, she likes the taste of that nasty cigar, she'll LOVE the taste of cock!

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    It's normal for you to take issue with this matter. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Intimacy should be a two way street. There's nothing wrong with you taking a break from going down on her until she starts returning the favor.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I feel I should definitely tell her how I feel I'm just not sure how, also tbh I'm not big on the idea of withdrawing sex as a type of blackmail, seems kind if manipulative to me which isn't how I want to be

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        I wouldn't see it as blackmail. I have always had a policy of expecting and even demanding equality with regard to intimacy. I never do anything for anyone sexually that he isn't will to return nor do I accept sexual favors that I do not wish to return. I basically find unreciprocated sex to be a real turn off and a deal breaker in my life.

        I think it's important that you love and respect yourself first and foremost, my brother.

        I guess for me it wouldn't be blackmail, because if someone expects to get from me without giving to me I'm completely turned off by that person's lack of love and respect for me.

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  • Gspyder
    8 years ago

    How I would approach it: Hey, will you go down on me the time? No? Why not?"

    I feel bad for people in relationships where communication is this difficult.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    Get a hotdog bun, cut it in half, smear some butter on it, put your penis between it, whack some relish on there and tell her that dinner has been served.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      You have butter in your hot dogs?

      You savage

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    give her the ole 2 pump dump roll over & goto sleep

    when she complains tell her that shes gittin back all shes put into this deal

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