Rate yourself as a significant other

I rate myself as a 10. In relationships, I am always sure to:

1. Give my partner plenty of space by heaping most of my love and affection on the cats.

2. Masturbate, so that I don't have to subject my partner to awful sex.

3. Empower my partner to the fullest by allowing them to pay for everything and make all important decisions.

4. Forget my partner's birthday, so that they won't get the impression that I think they're old.

5. Compare my partner to my mother constantly, so that they know what I think they should work on.

10!

Nearly 14 years with the same partner and still strong.

I would say about a 7 or 8 on a good day and a 0 on a bad day.
Most of the time, I have been described as supportive, loving, caring, nice/kind, sensual, fun, tolerant etc. But when I have had a very bad day or am depressed in any sort of way, I become very withdrawn and shut people out where sometimes I'm with someone who feels that it should be the opposite and I'll just be like "You want to know what my problem is? You. You're my problem right now.".

Generally, though, I have been told that I am very good at communicating what I want, what I expect and how I feel and I generally tell my partner what to do when I behave in certain ways. I don't like my partner feeling confused ("why is she being so quiet something must be majorly wrong" where this is what's going on in my mind "so am I going to raise the motor, remove the bolts and run them down to the store to manually size them or guesstimate?").

Also, I'm considered a "workaholic" so factor that in as well. Some partners get very upset that I seem to be more dedicated to working than to them but it's a mindset that I really can't help sometimes.

3.

Not feeling very motivated today.

Meh. In some aspects good in others not so much.

Maybe a three since I'm an apathetic, slow minded, airhead who can't seem to get her emotions in or out of line as of late.

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22 and still a fucking loser.

One. Not good with relationships

9, 7, 5, 10, 6, 3, 2, 5, 6, 8, 7 = ~6.

7 on most days.

0

That's not self deprecating or being modest, my mind right now, life situation and to a lesser extent looks means I really need to work on my life and mostly my mindset first

I would be a 10 as a lover. But probably just a 4 or a 5 as a life partner.

I'm a 10! I'm fair and thoughtful in my relationships. I left my ex rather than waste his time because it was fair for him since I didn't love him any more. I'm fair in my current relationship because I cater to his wants and needs but unfortunately, I don't always get it reciprocated. I love to communicate and I'm not your avg gf who will argue out of nowhere. Plus other things including great sex. I'm a really affectionate person and love having sex w my partner. I'm so nurturing during it which is why I also have to love my partner to have sex w them, or else the sex will be boring.

Depends. If I'm in a good mood, easily 10/10, people think I'm funny, handsome, sassy, and flirty and aren't afraid to say so.

When I'm having a depressive episode, which is most of the time, I had a negative effect on EVERYONE. People stop laughing when I walk into a room, and stare at me, worriedly.

For all it's worth, I think that I'd be a 2 overall. Awful, but with some redeeming qualities.

I am supportive, pleasant, even-tempered, like to fix things, and told that I have a wonderful sense of touch. But, I read all the time, and am also excessively frugal.

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I try, but affections are weird... I'm not a very good partner :/

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I have been a 10.