Rape is it ok?

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hi you can call me D. age 22 i live on the northern end of our world ..i was raped by a friend (not a boyfriend) just a friend i've known for 3 yrs. we were doing school work @ my room and he made advances on me, @ first it seem ok but when i tried to stop him he forced me and penetrated me first virginal sex & afterwards on my anal ..he would do this occasionally until i started liking it. i now really love anal sex and always fantasies about that nite ...is what he done wrong? is that rape? i feel emotionally scarred but love it still ..so I’m confused ...can some1 help me

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  • indotits
    15 years ago | pl

    rape is never ok

    your body reacted naturally to sexual stimulation and eventually you got horny

    if you are emotionally confused maybe you should get counselling

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      yeah I agree

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  • onyx132
    12 years ago

    Hmm i have you same problem,but yes it was rape and it was vary bad what he did to you...

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  • icepeople
    15 years ago

    There may have been areas of the act that you enjoyed, but if overall feel emotionally scarred by the whole affair, then it's definately NOT ok. If you know where he is now, you need to take action against him or you may not ever be at peace.

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  • yvenkaerf
    12 years ago

    it WAS rape, but now it isn't. The same thing happened to me. You will be scarred still for the first time and you want that addressed. The want that comes after it is normal--it's sex and he was pleasing you. Until you can find a healthy lover and sex partner he's still got that control on you.

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  • Cunfuzzled
    14 years ago

    http://www.rapehelp.com/

    get help. this is rape, regardless that you started to like it or not, you have been violated and your innocence has been sullied

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    • Malfoy
      14 years ago

      "get help. this is rape, regardless that you started to like it or not, you have been violated and your innocence has been sullied"

      Not even virgins are innocent these days. Look around you. These days, two-year-old girls kill insects. You know why? It's because they have deep sexual perversion. Look at them one day, they finger themselves every time they step on something.

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      • binkylover
        14 years ago

        It's very important that you talk to someone about this situation. You clearly have unresolved issues stemming from the event. You did nothing wrong, and it WAS rape, whether you enjoyed it or not. Please consider contacting someone to talk to.

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  • MegaDerp
    12 years ago

    He's raping you and that's sick turn him into the police

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    It's only rape if you don't want it, dear.

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  • nickywa9
    11 years ago

    He's using you. I know you like it but what he's doing is wrong. You need to find someone that will actually take care of you. He probably does this to other innocent people. Lock him up.

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  • MrPedobeard
    12 years ago

    Buy some mace, and the next time he tries, spray him in the face, then the dick. And then call the popo, hire a lawyer, and file a restraining order. Or just kill him. Or get a good friend to.

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    That's sad you ended up liking it. You should despise that guy.

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    • helloitsme
      7 years ago

      You forget that women are biologically programmed so that even if they're raped their body will react physiologically so that the experience isn't completely aawful.

      This can even be more stressfull for the victim, because they feel guilty about enjoying themselves (even if just in parts) and confused about wether or not it was their own fault and asked for it.

      Don't blame this girl, because you have no idea how mentally screwed up rape victims can feel after. Sometimes it isn't black and white and you're confused and hate yourself after and can't even say the r word and rationalize the whole thing.

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  • Bobetzza
    12 years ago

    "No" means "no". The minute you say no, the minute he sould have stopped. But it really isn't considered rape if you liked it.

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  • iliketorapelittlekids
    12 years ago

    Rape is the best thing in the world, it should be embraced and legalized.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      Fucken sick mother fucker

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  • shyboyone
    13 years ago

    What does it matter you liked it and want more of the same, call him

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  • dnniedrko
    8 years ago

    No, rape is not okay. But every person who has been raped reacts differently to it, and your reaction is actually quite normal. And you enjoyed the sex - NOT the rape.
    Id recommend you a therapy and to report the person who raped you to the police. Incase you dont want to, or it doesnt work, then you should stay away from him.
    Youre fantasizing about sex, not rape. Remember that.
    I hope that someday you will find someone who will able to have sex with you in a natural, caring way. Because trust me, thats the thing youd really enjoy.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Rape is never okay. Please, report the rape to the police. Good luck.

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  • NobodyKnows
    9 years ago

    As far as trolls go, yes, this post is normal.

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  • kingofthetropics
    10 years ago

    ok how can it be rape if you ended up liking it.

    consider this - i used to think i hated eating eggplants and refused to eat them, but when my friend forced me to eat some, i ended up liking it.

    get the logic? Or have u been conditioned to immediately react: "Don't even compare sex with eggplants"?

    when sex is involved, everyone automatically freaks out. anything that is of any uncomfort or hesitation with sex is quickly labeled "rape", and the receiver is categorized as a "victem" without any choice or exception.
    the vibe, the relationship, the mutuality - all of these things leading to your personal experience is thrown out the window irregardless. RIDICULOUS.

    Of course there's good reason why everyone freaks out about this subject - because traumatic sexual experiences do actually occur, which is horrible.

    BUT - just because it's a "touchy subject" doesn't mean it has to be black or white.

    seriously, if you enjoyed it, and you wanted more, and fantasized about it, and you're not hurt or traumatized, then shit - it was a great sexual experience!
    don't let others label you a "victim". don't let them "feel sorry" for what you enjoyed.

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  • Cheese123
    10 years ago

    If you feel pressured, it's rape.

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  • Paranormal..
    10 years ago

    Rape: not ok
    When you like it: ok

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  • edyryn
    10 years ago

    In this case yes the rape you experienced was ok.

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    he is the rape man

    episode 1:raping a friend

    rapeman:hay baby its dang a lang time!

    D:uagh no

    rapeman:to bad bitch &throws hand cuffs and they cuff ya*

    *you accept it*

    rape man:BOOM SHAKALAKA!

    D:oh yes

    *cops bust in*

    rape man:sup?

    cop:TAKE DAT HUGE DICK OUTA DAT BITCH!

    *rape man jumps out window and runs away*

    rape man: run run as fast as you can! cant catch my im the dang a lang man!

    *he soon escapes and are relived that he used a super duper delux magnum condom*

    rape man:end of episode 1 SUCK MY DANG A LANG!

    authet:Rape Man
    Rape Man:Rape Man
    D:The OP
    Cop:A cop

    go to you tube for more search up rapeman!

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  • blueberry26
    11 years ago

    1st it is a rape but since u got horny and didn't try to stop him that means you accepted and just had sex not been raped

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  • MrPedobeard
    12 years ago

    OH, and find a therapist, ASAP!!

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  • ishitpandas
    12 years ago

    Hell no

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  • t33h33
    12 years ago

    This post was obviously written as a joke... Either that or by someone with a learning difficulty as there are no sentences that make sense and no one spells night ''nite''

    goodnite world...

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  • thesomewherekid
    12 years ago

    fuck that guy, what a prick, call the police and if you feel horny ask for it from someone trustable, not someone you know per se, but someone who hopefully wont kill you after, but i dont think its very hard for a girl no matter how good or bad they look to go up to someone and ask for sex. The End.

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  • lolcats2damax
    12 years ago

    Horror movies don't usually have happy endings, good job.

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