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Is it normal to have rape fantasies involving guys who repusle me? To be turned on by the thought of being forced by a guy who I hate?
I fantasize about being sexually molested by a Minotaur wearing a jetpack holding a chainsaw wearing wayfarers in space.
I'M SERIOUS.
I'd have to agree- If you are having rape fantasies, then you already get turned on by the thought of having someone do something to you *against* your will. The fact that the guy is gross, just amplifies the *against your will* factor. I guess it all depends on your level of fantasy- Either hook up with a gross friend like ralcor said, OR find a not so gross friend who wouldn't mind being (haha) "gross-ified" and also wouldn't mind role-playing as your rapist. Use safe words!
This is a serious response...
What you describe seems to be humiliation.
Humiliation is one of the most powerful human emotions.
So, I don't believe that you actually want to experience humiliation. By restricting this to a fantasy, you are, in fact, _controlling_ any feelings of humiliation.
Nothing is odd in the fantasy. Even though this kind of fantasy could be related to the fact that you do not want the "responsibility" of having sex, so you need someone who rapes you (so you can not feel guilty for the sex). In my experience this kind of fantasy appears in girls who naturally love sex (as normal human beings do), but suffered a bigot education about it (even like "have sex only after your wedding", or something like this)
rape fantasies or forced fantasies as to give it a lesser taboo connototation is more common than people would think. People don't mostly talk about fantasies, let alone forced/raped fantasies
I'm a guy & love play rape. I can hurt you & abuse you. What ever you like. I'm fit not bad looking and have average 26cm cock but it's thick and strong. And I'm free
I've heard a lot of people have fantasies about being raped, but to me it's one of my biggest fears and consider myself to be very sexually open minded. I'm up for anything excluding anal sex. xx
You fantasize about been raped by a fat ugly pig hahahaha there should be a place for everyone to go to fufill their fantasy.
Yeah same! Like, when I watch porn I either like to watch it with REALLY hot guys, or really nasty guys. I don't know why I like it, maybe because it seems naughty?
there is nothing wrong with fantasies like this, as long as they stay fantasies
Yeah. It's normal for women to want to be dominated. But the other stuff like being gross I don't know if that's normal but I like it too. ;)
Normal. . . People can fantasize about whatever turns them on as their imagination explores a lot of things many of us do not share.
Yes, it is normal. I am seeing two girls that have the same fantasy and we act them out every so often. I handcuff then, gag them, and have some really rough sex. They just really get off on the idea of having no control and being dominated. As for the gross guys that's just another form of submission to the dominance. So find a gross friend and have a good time.
well i have rape fantasies but not by gross guys
my rape fantasies are with a hot tall italian guy with a nice tan and muscles <3 oh man! totally turned on by them
Well you sound kind of conflicted sexually. You are repulsed and attracted by sex, simultaneously. But who knows ...?
Maybe you need something to spice up your sex life? I doubt you have bipolar disorder...just sounds like you need an extra something to get you going?