Rape fantasy

so im a female and a teenager. but anyway is it normal that i want to get raped like not by a stranger and get put in a body bag but i just want a guy i know to be really aggressive with me its my biggest fantasy but i think i would get scared if it happened in real life unless we could make it fun(if that make sense) but im confused about what i want i think about getting called dirty names and getting choked, spanked and handcuffed. A guy spanked me once few slaps on my ass hard it was funny and it stung

actually i talked to a man who wanted to do it to me and it was so different how dominating he was and now its all i think about

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  • JohnTrollinski

    So rough sex... Not rape...

    What a virgin.

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    • Lissisbliss

      Wow I never realized the last part of your name actually spells "Troll"inski.

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      • JohnTrollinski

        What a Coincidence

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    • preciiousv

      well he would actually say he want to rape me and if i said stop he wouldn't but that was like another side of him he didn't say lets have rough sex

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  • SuperBenzid

    This is normal.

    The reason you fantasize is because sex in some way makes you personally feel guilty or shameful. So this fantasy allows you to have guilt-free sexual enjoyment because you don't choose to be raped. Of course if it happened in reality you probably wouldn't feel the same way but most people fantasize about things they might not want to truly happen.

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    • preciiousv

      dont get the first part, why would i feel guilty about sex

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    • MonchichiLuvsu

      As a female who shares this fetish, I have NEVER felt guilty about sex.

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    • dom180

      Interesting thought, one I hadn't considered before. Although making assumptions with such strong conviction about people sets you up to be wrong, and doesn't often come across terribly nicely.

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      • SuperBenzid

        Well making grand assumptions about people based on a small amount of text is what the internet is all about.

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    • lolol555

      (not OP)
      Huh, that's a pretty interesting take on why people have rape fantasies. Never thought of it that way.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Can I take a powerdump first?

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  • rachel.dsouza

    its not rape fantasy..its called wild sex fantacy.Do with a trusted guy.YOu will have fun.

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    • Seyhello

      Theres also internet possibiys meet a guy you get to know well ive heard of this

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  • JaxX

    It's not "normal". But you would be surprised how many women like it that rough. Trust me hun.. rape fantasy is not the same as rape foreal. Please don't go walking down some dark abandoned ally thinking your looking for what you want. Keep it safe and controlled with a trusted.

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  • wetemke

    Many woman have the rape fantasy, no one really wants that and I really feel for people who have been through it. However, you only live once and you should try to fulfil your fantasies. Here's an idea. Firstly you need one or two guys you trust, who understand it's for fun and pleasure and not disrespect you. Go to a park or somewhere that there is a slim chance of someone seeing you. You pretend you're taking a stroll and enjoying a day in the park. The 2 guys come walking toward you. Suddenly they grab you, throw you on the ground. One holds you down, the other rips your panty and has his way until orgasm, then he holds you down and the other guy sticks it to you. Then they run away and leave you lying there. I would say for realism, they should really run away and not see you again for a few days. Another one you could try. Have a guy "break in" while you are sleeping. He drags you to the lounge, ties you over the coffee table and does you doggy style. The other guy comes around, finds you tied and unties you.

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  • MaxCapacity2121

    Having rough sex is always thrill, just be sure the one you do it with isn't a creep. My man delivers.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    Not rape.
    You want S&M sex, which is practiced by many, many people.

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  • megadriver

    Technically that's not rape. You are just looking for rough sex from a dominant man. You are a submissive female. Very nice.
    Just try not to get out of control. A bit of kink can be fun, but everything has limits.

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  • Riddler

    Its called S&M. You should look it up. Its a very common fetish and they have entire communities centered around it.

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  • MrAbnormal

    First of all, don't confuse rape with just aggressive sex. And there is all the difference in the world between consensual BDSM play and rape.

    Sexually, I've been into all kinds of f*cked up, but rape is the only one I can truly call sick. Used to really like Ayn Rand until I read the 5 chapter of Atlas Shrugged and realized rape fantasies were at the heart of all her fiction, felt blue for the rest of the day. Maybe rape fantasies have the right to exist somewhere, but that somewhere is not in loving relationships. If my girlfriend told me she loved the idea of getting raped, it's not unlikely that we would have to break up because I might just fail to get over it. Looking her in the eyes would be hard.

    Consent is the only determinant of morality in a social setting, so the only way a sexual act could be wrong is if consent is absent, which is precisely the essence of rape (and, you could argue, adultery, since the third partner's consent is absent). Ethically, nonconsensual sex is not just another fetish. It's the only possible sexual wrong.

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  • KatieLiz

    Rape fantasy is normal, but it absolutely does not mean a person wants to actually get raped. You just want rough sex, so chill :p

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  • alnorth36

    Be careful what you wish for hun. I had the same fantasy for years, but when it happened in real (3years ago), it became a nightmare. Three men raped me in a resort in Jamaica and my pussy and my ass were sore and bleeding for a few days... DON'T TRY IT HUN!!

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  • mlenny

    Strange sexual fantasies are neither uncommon nor abnormal (as long as they don't involve children or animals). But you might want to be careful with guys like that.

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  • royalewitcheese

    Me and my boyfriend do role play.
    Talking dirty during sex can help, also during phone sex he tells me scenerios of him being my teacher or kidnapper and goes into detail.
    For anyone who tells you your sick or whatever there taking the definition rape to heart when you clearly dont want to be forced against your own will.
    Also anyone who says "i want to be raped" is wrong anyway considering thd defintion is penertration against somebodys own will.
    You want role play and thats perfectly normal just find some body else who is into it.

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  • Riddler

    Its called S&M

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  • Isthisreal

    Hi just a little point, according to my understanding the word 'Rape' is more a legal definition. Rape according to my little understanding, is a none consensual sexual act against the person. The word 'Rape' is a compounded word that has many ideas built into it. This is why lawyers debate the word rape.
    A woman might say she has a 'fantasy of being raped', however by using the word 'fantasy' a woman is limiting the reality and understanding of 'rape'.
    Rape is the process of taking someone sexually against their will. Force has to be used and a defiance against the set norms and morality that are set in the society. These norms and morality in this society do not actually really exist. Most people in this society live in fear of being Judged and seen as not part of the 'safe group'. Most people in this society would do the most foulest of acts if there was no consequences.
    The question posed could actually be a red herring as Sexuality is nothing to be afraid of (unless you are British).
    Having a high sex drive and wanting it to be explored is nothing to be afraid of.
    Limiting oneself by using words such as consent, safety and Rape becomes a difficulty when exploring Sexuality and life.
    Even in relationships that individuals see as safe and consenting there is still the element of what is called losing control. This is why people when explaining, state she or he was a different person.
    Women and men in Britain and other places in the 21st century are still afraid of their Sexuality, this is very sad.
    This is why the person who said if his girlfriend said she fantasised about rape he would leave her, that is sad and that is controlling. Everyone has the right to be free in their sexual desires and understanding.

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  • orinoco

    You don't want it for real but it gets you going, so you can masturbate on it. That is pretty normal! Enjoy...

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  • missy100

    Being a fantasy, you can have wild sex, be dominated, have to be humiliated, and losing total control of the situation without actually having to endure the real pain of a rape. This should only be a fantasy.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I've read a few times that most women have this fantasy.

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    • It is strange.

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  • handsignals

    OP is Max Hardcore

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