Question for most guys: why do you cheat/treat women like crap?

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I feel PEOPLE cheat because:
They are confused about the status or seriousness of the relationship and feel their partner isn't serious enough.
Revenge.
They just find someone attractive and pursue it rather than ignoring it and being loyal.
I think after a while you get to know if a person's a player or just wants a fling. Just avoid them until you find someone who takes you seriously. Cheating is such a trend, sadly, and it destroys everything we work for and just takes away the simple honesty in living. People should think twice about doing this vice.

P.S In reference to your other point I think a whore's a whore, unfortunately, as long as they choose to be, regardless of gender.

Personally if I were in a monogamous relationship where I felt like cheating, I would just end it. However I do know why some men do this. There are many reasons.
From what I have been told, some people are in relationships because it is convenient. Ending the relationship would cause more problems than staying, so they cheat.
Sometimes they are not getting sex at home and some people are just addicted to sex and are not motivated to control their impulses.
Sometimes they have a fetish their partner is not willing to do.
When they cheat with someone they actually like, rather than meaningless sex, they might be very confused about what they want so they experiment to get answers. Other times they do know what they want but that goes back to choosing what is convenient.
People may also cheat when their partner is away for a while.
Women are just as likely to cheat as well.
There isnt any one anwser to this.

"MOST" guys don't do this, so get that out of your head.

Guys cheat probably for the same reason women do. Their partner is not being physically intimate with them so they look for it elsewhere, they may not be getting the right amount of romantic attention from their partner, some will do it for excitement as you said, etc, etc. Why they wouldn't break it off would probably due to them still loving the person but still needing that "need" for intimacy which they are not getting from the one they love.

Cheating is wrong regardless of the reason, though.

The whole "Slut/stud" thing isn't a double standard because the requirements for men and women to have frequent sexual partners are different. For a guy you have to be either skilled in charm, have status, or money, and so on. For a woman you simply need to ask for sex and one out of two people will accept, even if you aren't incredibly good looking.

So men have to, in a sense, work for sex where as women do not, therefor men will be praised and women will not because only one group has to do something to achieve the outcome; sex.

As for the slut thing with women, I would assume it's because usually such women who sleep around don't expect the requirements women in general need met by men in order to have sex, which means she is lowering her standards compared the women in general, which means to those with those standards such women (sluts) will be looked upon because their standards are lower than the norm.

What I think would fix this? If women did not have higher standards than men. If women, like men, were more accepting of people to be their sexual partners so much that women having the same standards as a "slut" has then the norm would be women do not have the higher requirements for men and are just as easy to accept sex as men are without the need to impress in some way or another.

You can't claim it's wrong for one group who have to meet higher requirements to meet a conclusion (sex) unfairly gets praised compared to the other group that have incredibly low requirements to meet the same conclusion.

So, that's my view on that. If women in general were more like men and generally accepted most people as sexual partners regardless of the need to meet high requirements, then this would not happen. If the slut/stud thing continues to happen after that, then yes, it would be a double standard and I would oppose that.

I don't know why you are specifically aiming this at cheating men and not just cheating in general but I assume it's because you were recently cheated on or someone you know was cheated on. Just an assumption, though.

Y'know, every woman wants her man to dominate her, deep down. If you treat a woman well, she will not respect you. She will cheat on you ar leave you. Gotta knock em around every once in a while, just to remind em who's in charge.
As for cheating, what's your woman gonna bitch about if'n ya don't? They always gotta have somethin to bitch about at their book club meetins, so a guy's gotta do what a guy's gotta do, to keep the little woman happy.
Right girls?

I'm not a man but there's a lot of reasons. Either the man feels insecure about breaking off the relationship even though he feels it should end and starts getting a wandering eye for other women, or maybe it makes him feel powerful (or thrill). Maybe he is unsure about what he wants and is stringing women along.

Men have been the patriarch of society for a long time, that is why it is frowned upon more so when a women sleeps around. But then again, it depends which part of the world you live in and the society's views on women and men.

Well...from the true words of Jim Jefferies ( Comedian). Only reason why it seems cool for a man to sleep with a bunch of women is the difficulty in it. You first must have a fake job, fake money, dress for the part and work hard to get sex from alot of women...so its challenging. Where as a woman...she really just has to be there... Im sure if you go up to 3 men...and ask them to fuck you...2 of them would....because well the 1st guy is gay. See? Its "easy to be a slut....damn hard to be a stud."

The only time I ever cheated was when I found out my ex had been cheating on me, so I thought it didn't matter if I had some fun too. Didn't do it for revenge or whatever, just wanted some new poon. All my other relationships, I'll say something upfront as to wanting an open relationship or say something if I wanna mess around with someone else. Up front honesty can go a long way toward a threesome. I assume most men cheat on their SO because they are bored. Their sex life becomes a routine, so something different is wanted. And their wife or w/e refusing to give oral or do doggy style because it's 'degrading' definitely isn't gonna be okay with sharing in any way, so the guy lies and cheats.

Why MOST?
id say some...