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I'm 21 (girl) and a virgin, for no particular religious/political/moral reason. Just haven't gotten around to it yet I guess. My guy friends all tell me that it's a turn on but I seriously can't imagine why. seriously. It seems like it would be a turn off/not normal to guys.
Is it normal to be a virgin at 21 or is it a turn off for guys?
Yes, it is a turn-on. I wish I could explain why, but I don't quite understand the "why?" part of it.
Virginity is not something that should be handed out to the first buyer. I waited until I found a wife. I was 27 when I lost mine. Don't get me wrong... I had plenty of opportunities for sex (one with three females), but I always declined. Yes, I guess I am a bit old-fashioned. Yes, sometimes I do ponder why I passed up a three-girls-at-one-time offer. But yes, I am glad to be STD-free.
What I'm trying to get at is... Good for you. Keep waiting until you are ready. You won't regret it.
Young virgin= good time for sex. Bad time for emotional garbage. 20 something virgin= average time for sex. Personally I would like an experienced female but that's me. Not so bad emotionally either .
It's not normal, unfortunately. But it is a good thing that u haven't givin' it away. I've been married twice, the 1st wife had been with, like 13-15 guys, before 17. Drove me crazy! I HATED the fact that she would spread 'em for any and everybody. Wife #2's only had 5or6, and she's 4yrs older than 1. Better! Ofcourse i had about 55 women on my 'sliver of a headboard' when we got together, so...my reasoning is a bit screwed! Again-GOOD for YOU! Keep 'EM UP!(your pants, that is!)
Better believe it, major turn-on. I think it's because you havnt been spoiled by other guys... Your still innocent because of that. I guess it's just a guy thing to want show a girl something she's never seen before... But also, I'd hate to be with a girl that I know has slept with a bunch of guys... For me, it's just gross. Some guys don't mind it, but most every guy likes it if you're a virgin. On another note, I agree with the above poster... Sex isn't that special outside the context of love. Wait for the right one.