Pushing people away after sex

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I lost my virginity at 16 and it wasn't on the best of terms. I was very drunk and it was with a 20 year old that took advantage of me. He didn't rape me, but he did know that I was intoxicated. I don't really remember it that much only bits and pieces. Since then, I've had 4 other sexual partners and none of them were people I've dated. I ended up having sex with my good friend while we were both intoxicated and now I feel very vulnerable and I'm pushing him away. I still want to be friends but I feel awkward in the situation. All the people I've had sex with I've pushed away. Is this normal ?

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  • strangelittleguy
    14 years ago

    If the sex was not exactly a good experience, it's a good reason that you push them away afterwards. It took my sexual experience with my sixth guy until I found a relationship that lasted and sex that was great. We've broke up, but since then I've met many guys and pushed them away afterwards because I was disappointed in them sexually. I think you're quite normal.

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