Pubes or no pubes?

So I'm almost 18 now and I truly feel like its time to say bye bye to my V-card. Only problem is I'm nervous. Not about the process or the pain, I know what to expect when it comes down to that stuff. I've had oral sex experiences with guys so I know what to expect from them but I've never let them get down on me or even come close to getting anywhere near there and that's because I'm nervous as to what they would think about my pubes. What do guys like?
I've tried to research this stuff (mainly porn) and I noticed how pretty the girls lower areas look without pubes. So I'm really nervous now cause I don't want whichever guy I'm with to think it looks gross. So please all males of all ages, races or whatever, I ask you now: what the hell do I do? Vote and tell me what the male gender prefers cause I have no clue.

Bushy and natural 36
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  • I know you wanted male feedback but I just wanted to say that from my experience, most guys don't really care either way as long as stuff is trimmed and tidy. The guys who expect you to stay stringently bare down there tend to be the ones who watch too much porn and have unrealistic ideas about how a woman is "supposed to take care of herself."

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  • RainbowDischarge

    My vulva is smoother than a veal cutlet!

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    • chole

      Sploosh.

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    • VirgilManly

      ::boing::

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    • goodatgiving

      Way to go....like my wife, bald

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    • 701068

      With really bad timing...

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  • thr

    Yada-yada... different guys, different preferences,... yada-yada... a guy who won't accept the way you look down there, isn't worth your time,... yada-yada... do what you prefer,... yada-yada.

    I like the idea of pubes on a young woman, in part because it could be a part of a girl confidently going against the stream.

    I suggest, you rock the style that you like most, and do what you're comfortable with.

    Disclaimer: I've never seen one up close.

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  • green_boogers

    I vote for bushy. Hairy porn is the best.

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  • Spankz

    I would say do whatever makes you feel comfortable and who cares what the guy thinks? You should things for yourself, not for others. What do you think would look best? What would you feel the prettiest having? Because at the end of the day if guys tell you that a bush is desirable, but you know you would feel more confident being shaved you won't feel as sexy in the bedroom. I keep mine shaved, because it's what makes me feel the most beautiful! It's what I prefer and honestly if a guy is going to throw a fuss over pubic hair that really isn't your problem.

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    • shuggy-chan

      You need as much hair as possible to cover your ugly =D

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      • Spankz

        Such a gentleman Ian ;D

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  • Couman

    It's a matter of individual preference. Bare does seem popular lately, but I think it's pretty hard to go wrong with neatly trimmed. It's almost certainly not going to turn anyone off. Either of the other options considerable could, depending on individual preference.

    You could always just ask the guy in your life first of course.

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  • Slim-shady-baby

    I'm a girl and I prefer to have mine completely smooth not even stubby! My mum said that its "not normal" to want completely smooth down below so I tend to experiment! Trim is then (this is going to sound stupid) lay on ur stomach (pants down just a smudge) if its comfertable on you then any man that finds it uncomfortable can get stuffed! Idiots uncomfy with just a trim shave fully and hope for the best!! It's a weird techniques but that's how I've been told to see it! Hope this helps!

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  • AlleyCat4MissHairyLoveKitten

    I'm male would like to meet girl whose willing to

    wear a small bush for me.. i think it's a turn on

    and i would eat a girl out whose hairy and finger her.

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  • HATIMTAI

    I don't have any problem whether my girlfriend has pubes or not. She has pubes but i go down on her everytime we do sex. But one thing you have to maintain is cleanliness in that area because it tends to accumulate the moisture and thus can stink.

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  • wifesass1

    i love it with and without hair

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  • wifesasslicker

    my wife shaves i love it she used to be hairy better bald

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  • goodatgiving

    My wife is always shaved smooth either by me or a volunteer of which there are many......

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    What ever your comfortable with. You have your whole life to figure out how you want your pubes to look. No man is ever going to turn down 18 year old vagina.

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  • sillygirl77

    If you and the guy you're with care for each other pubes vs. no pubes doesn't matter.

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  • VirgilManly

    Dreadlocks.

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  • chained_rage

    I don't have any pubes on my Visa card? Is this a thing nowadays?

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    • Couman

      As we recently learned, it doesn't stand for Visa. It's a virtual business card. And yes, you can include a photo of your pubes if you want.

      http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-i-gave-my-sister-my-vcard-194841/

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  • iEatZombies_

    Ask the guy you're with what he likes. It's not an odd question, so there's nothing to feel akward about. I'll say that I don't know of any men under 40 who prefer bush. It's usually either trim it, shave it, or leave a little and shave the rest. So, if you feel that uncomfortable, just trim it a good amount. It's a safe bet if you're that concerned.
    I am a female, just fyi.

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    • I would ask him....if he existed at the moment. Kinda hard to ask some guy you barely know if he likes it hairy or smooth....yeah that would be interesting lol
      oh but thanks for the other feedback tho :)

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    Why do you think it's about time to lose it? No one says that. Lose it with the one you love, not just because you want to lose it to feel cool. You're 18, not 30, sheesh.

    But as for the pubes, I'd go with either cleanly shaven or trimmed.

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    • I'm not losing my virginity to be "cool" I'm doing it cause I'm a raging hormone controlled teen whose sick of masturbation.
      And thanks for the feedback on pubes.

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      • hauntedbysandwiches

        Haha okay well that's fine, I suppose.

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  • RichDomin

    The vast majority of women shave their legs and underarms. They do it to look more feminine. If you subscribe to this majority view, why then would you not keep the center of your feminine sexuality shave smooth and clean.

    I know some women (masochists) who are big fans of waxing. And other more modern high tech women who go laser. I prefer smooth and hairless.

    Any moron who thinks this makes you look prepubescent is likely the same guy who thinks a man shaving his face looks like a prepubescent boy! To those men I say, "Go forth and join the priesthood."

    There is another argument that we are driven by scent ( this is well documented and I recommend you pick your husband-wife by this method.) In those cases pubic hair likely plays a role of trapping scent. I find usually better to have a good diet, low in sugar which seems to make you smell badly, and to bath and avoid perfume (confuses) and deoderants, which actually amke you stink, especially the antiperspirant chemicals.

    I think women who brush their hair, bath, and shave feel more feminine to me, but when a woman like the one above who has not for 40 years, let her find those men who like that. There does seem to be any number of combinations which both attract and repell us.

    I find without pubic hair, I am forced to get my nose very close to her vagina, often lapping and sniffing. The "Oh God Yes!" I hear cried out during these times, leads me to believe women might like this form of scent collection.

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  • Daddy_1369

    Me and my wife both are clean shaved bald and im telling ya its more sexy and their is more sensation down their.

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  • borntobeme

    As a older male, I have had the pleasure of going down on more women then use this site. Saying that, start by trimming for your first encounter, it can always grow back. Yes, a shaved genital area can be a real turn on. Plenty of time for that, if you choose. Any man that goes down on a woman, usually does not want catch a 4" long pubic hair in his teeth. Keep it clean and enjoy your life adventure.

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    • wifesfeet

      i dont mind her pubs in my mouth

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  • JD777

    I like it shaved smooth, but know that's a hassle for my lady to keep it smooth and not all stubbly (ouch!). Second choice is to have it shaved everywhere except a small trimmed patch above the parts. And I would be grossed out to encounter a hair rear end! Oh, and if you get a regular sex partner, don't be afraid to nicely request they reciprocate and trim the bush!

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  • Shroot

    Shaven shaven shaven shaven

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    • Ellenna

      why why why why? So as to look like a prepubescent little girl?

      Grown woman have pubic hair, get used to it

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      • Karmasbitch

        Ew damn hippie's

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      • Shroot

        I just find it more attractive

        That's all there is too it

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      • Do you shave your underarms or legs? Why, to look like a pre-pubescent girl? =) See how that works? Some people just have a preference. Guys like us smooth everywhere else and we don't think twice about complying in THOSE areas, this isn't much different. But anyone who's demanding you stay smooth all the time doesn't understand the hassle it is, or doesn't care =/

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        • Ellenna

          No I don't shave my underarms or my legs and haven't for more than 40 years, not since this was an issue in a family court custody case, to prove I was such a rabid feminist I couldn't possibly be a good mother ...... I lost custody.

          Now i come to think of it, the lawyer cross-examining me way back then had pretty much the mindset of you and others on this issue, that "real" women don't have body hair because they must remove it all.

          Stupid argument then, stupid argument now

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          • Lol I never said or even implied that I think real women don't have body hair. I assumed that you shave your body hair because most women do, and I was pointing out that if that's the case, it should be no different than shaving pubic hair to conform to a female ideal. If you don't shave then obviously the argument doesn't apply to you.

            Yes, body hair on women is perfectly natural. But the person who wrote the post is a young woman asking what young men would want to see. I think I gave her realistic advice based on my own experience.

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    • Shroot

      2 thumbs down from ladies who don't groom.

      Biblical stuff

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      • Ellenna

        Biblical?

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