Prostitute or her client - dealbreaker or not?

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For WOMEN: Would you date a guy if you knew he had repeatedly had sex with prostitutes in a certain period of his life in the past?

For MEN: Would you date a woman if you knew she had worked as a prostitute in a certain period of her life in the past?

No, I wouldn´t - it´s a dealbreaker for me (I´m FEMALE) 6
Yes, if I liked him, it wouldn´t be a dealbreaker for me (I´m FEMALE) 9
No, I wouldn´t - it´s a dealbreaker for me (I´m MALE) 13
Yes, if I liked her, it wouldn´t be a dealbreaker for me (I´m MALE) 16
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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
    11 years ago

    I don't see it as a problem as long as they're clean.

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    • TerryVie
      11 years ago

      not only that, but think of all the experience they may have gained and bring with them :)

      Interesting times ahead...

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      Thirded.

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      • Justsomejerk
        11 years ago

        Quartered.

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        • pleasetellmethetruth
          11 years ago

          fifthed

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        • NoraBaker
          11 years ago

          Poundered.

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          • shade_ilmaendu
            11 years ago

            Damn, you guys are making me hungry D:

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            • NoraBaker
              11 years ago

              Aw, man! Why did you take it away? I was feeling so naughty that I poundered Justsomejerk... :(

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    • Legion
      11 years ago

      seconded

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Why are both questions not aimed at both women and men? No it would not be a deal breaker.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    If it's in the past then it's in the past.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    I would date a woman or a man who'd been or paid for a prostitute.

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  • bleach_baby
    11 years ago

    This might sound extreme, but in my opinion, a man who will sleep with a prostitute is a man who is happy to have sex with a woman who does not want to have sex with him. I know it's perfectly consensual, but the moral issue for me is that he enjoys sex with a partner who is only having sex with him for money, who does not enjoy sex with him, and who probably has issues of her own which have forced her into this vulnerable position. I have talked to men who have slept with prostitutes, and they will swear that she enjoyed it - erm, no, she's a whore, making a client believe that is part of her job.To actually believe them seems unbelievable arrogance and conceit. Or the man who visits prostitutes might defend it by saying that they are not exploiting anyone, that they are helping a girl get through Uni or do nightclasses or whatever. Firstly, such women are the exception and not the rule, and secondly, the prostitute is not going to tell her client that shes addicted to crack or got raped by her uncle or that she got pregnant at 16 or whatever.

    I don't neccesarily judge men who visit prostitutes, but I would not have a partner who is able to view women as mere sex objects, or exploit their suffering or discomfort for their own sexual needs.

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    • GottaWeeGirl
      11 years ago

      We who have sold our bodies are incredible actors/actresses who feed the clients' egos and that is why many have sought us out. The rationale is that his wife or gf won't give him blowjobs, but the men want to feel appreciated so they are willing to pay for our time. Yes, I was sexually abused from the age of 10, but I have NEVER used any recreational drugs in my life!! I honestly loved sucking most of them off, and felt empowered.

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