Problems getting girlfriends, sex, fun, love, etc.

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I'm 19 and have not had a girlfriend since I was 15. I feel like I've definitely done something wrong. I've been with girls since then but never for more than 1 night and never as far as sex. And they're hardly of a high standard, I know I can do better. Maybe I lack confidence, but I know exactly what I am capable of, so if I do indeed lack confidence then I also genuinely lack ability!!
Is there some secret that I'm missing? Please help!

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  • rooster8
    15 years ago

    "Is there some secret that I'm missing?"

    ALCOHOL

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  • AnotherAussie
    14 years ago

    hey bud im in the same boat but mines worse
    i have a mate who haz the personality of a treestump and when ever we hoock up with chicks they always seem to just wana fuck him . . now i have been drunk with him and he streeks when he is drunk so i know its not his cock

    he haz the largest ego on the face of the planet there is a reason aus is on the bottom of the eirth . . .

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    Why don't you just hang out with people who happen to be female?

    Stop trying to score. Bring some sandwiches to the picnic -- by that I mean know something interesting to talk about, some music, some current events. Develop some talent or expertise. Be interesting to know.

    Get to like women as people, not as objects. Stop looking at internet porn.

    Maybe you'll never get married (who knows if that even means anything anymore), but you certainly don't have to be miserable and alone

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Well, to start with your 19 and when you fornicate with underage girls your headed for trouble so be Leary of that to start with.

    As far as your confidence goes it sound like you know what your capable of so get the show on the road. If you can improve on capability but lack of ability, I think your just stuck with. Don't worry I think this shit is all in your head so you will out grow your insecurities.

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    • izitblud
      15 years ago

      I've never faunicated with underage girls, perhaps you misread the first sentence: "I'm 19 and have not had a girlfriend since I was 15."

      Thanks for the rest of your advice though

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    • [Old Memory]
      15 years ago

      You can improve on capability but not lack of ability something like that.

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      • [Old Memory]
        15 years ago

        What would you know Gizzie hes talking about women not little boys

        @ poster
        Sometimes when your younger you go through dry spells. I dont think theres anything wrong with you just need to meet the right girl and it will happen when you least expect it and it wont be very far away good luck

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        • [Old Memory]
          15 years ago

          WTF are you insinuating that I have thing for little boys you worthless puke?

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        • izitblud
          15 years ago

          Thanks very much mate, hope you're right!

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  • lovestofuc
    10 years ago

    Completely normal, I went through the same thing at your age. First lesson is simple learn how to say " hi my name is ______" and look them in the eyes when doing so. Do not talk about sex until she does. If you follow those 2 rules it will help a lot. Also the person who said about being interesting is giving good advice as well.

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  • bieberfan
    13 years ago

    I'm the same exact way! No worries, you're not alone

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  • the_nick30
    13 years ago

    Man Up.

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  • jadbones
    14 years ago

    don't worry about it, focus on your career, in the long run that is more imporant and girls like girls who are focused on other things not just getting their end in.

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  • Simply_Abnormal
    14 years ago

    Normal.
    However your attitude towards the women you have had shows reasons for while your struggling. You have way too much self confidence.

    You're most probably not as good as you make out and you need to chill down on that thought...You'll get a lot more girls that way.

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  • cowboyup341990
    14 years ago

    just be confident girls always like that a person is confident

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Persistence. That is really a key.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Perhaps you should come to a realization that there is quite too much more to life than sex, like I have. To me, sex is only 1.5%% of life.

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  • thegoodneighbor
    15 years ago

    Girls are attracted to someone who is confident and sincere.
    Girls dont know how big the penis is until they are already attracted, at this point penis size will not usually subside the attraction. If anything it is easier to do oral sex on.

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  • biggiesmalls
    15 years ago

    your 19, there is probably nothing wrong with you, but girls might see you as a man whore, maybe not a good guy to be with because he just wants sex, if all your doing with these randoms is sleeping with them. the next girl you like try and get to know them, instead of going to fast.

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  • gaatooor
    15 years ago

    Just watch alot of porno and be patient. To scoot along there is much wanking to be done.

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  • Sexcrzyfuck
    15 years ago

    ha well maybe you should talk to a girl for what they like and have things in common then thinking about what theyre like in bed..

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    • WarLord
      15 years ago

      What do you like in bed?

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    • izitblud
      15 years ago

      simple answer, but it might work

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  • arios
    15 years ago

    hey how about you have confidence and ask a bunch of gurls out??? your young go to clubs like all teens do have fun......

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  • Bamboo_Banga
    15 years ago

    ego??? girls like a big shlong!

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  • Quests
    15 years ago

    girls like a big ego

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