Problem in having sex with my wife

this happened twice already. when i'm having sex with my wife, i cannot ejaculate, no matter how long i do it. i even tried to think another girl. so what i did to not disappoint my wife is to have a fake orgasm. then i went to the bathroom and masturbate then, voila! there is an ejaculation. is this normal? i'm scared! pls. help..

ps.
i masturbate regularly

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  • BurnaBaby27

    Maybe stop masturbating for a while. Three or so days should do it. This should increase your sensitivity and allow you to orgasm while penetrating your wife.

    You're welcome.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Pretty common that a guy actually squeezed his penis to tight when he masturbates. Makes him more used to constricted spaces, and so the natural feeling of a vagina doesn't do it anymore. Try masturbating with a lighter grip. Even if it takes longer, it might help to reverse this.

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  • quentari

    let her know you are having this problem then go see a therapist together. Sounds like you're having some subconscious issues.

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  • Fartyr

    Are you on any medications that prevent it?

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  • bigguy2010

    Stop masturbating.

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  • moomus

    If you have to think about another girl, then it sounds like you're having issues with your wife, which are probably causing this problem

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