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Do you think it's common/normal for beautiful, interesting, unique girls to get turned down/rejected when it comes to relationships sometimes? Especially if they approach the "wrong" situations or confess feelings with out thinking first?
The title is very misleading.
Being pretty doesn't mean you're unique.
It doesn't mean you're nice.
It doesn't mean you're interesting.
It doesn't mean you're likeable.
Hell, I'd hate a mean, bitchy whore-type girl (who happens to be pretty).
But yes, it is common for annoying pretty girls to be rejected. Especially if the guy has brains.
You don't need to read into it too deeply.
Clearly the question is describing good qualities.
I'm not saying being pretty makes you these things.
I also never asked over annoying pretty girls.
I asked about girls who ARE unique and interesting.
Who ARE lovely and who also happen to be pretty.
I don't think anyone else mis-read this.
Also, this isn't about me personally.
I'm pretty sure it never states that either.
It is not normal that you have to ask about it... specially, if you are recognizing the "wrong" part... now try again until you find the "right" time... by accident -.-U
It doesn't always depend on the outside, it's the inside too! If it's meant to happen it will ;)
I don't know but from what I've read, it seems that some beautiful women do develop low self esteems because most guys are too intimidated by their looks. Just an observation I've made.
I agree that some attractive people have low self-esteem, but not because of intimidation. Part of it is because their appeal is on the outside and what's on the inside may not match up.
I'll try to explain a little better. First, though, I don't think there's a correlation between attractiveness and self-esteem.
You can be an attractive guy/girl and have low or high self-esteem and the same goes for being unattractive.
What happens sometimes is that with attractive people, they're usually complimented on their looks, but not so much on what they say or think or how they act. This leads to the low self-esteem. It's all about how you view yourself and if you don't feel like your personality is as good as your appearance, you will have low-self esteem.
If this is by the same lesbian that has made atleast five stories/polls about this topic, then move on already. Nobody likes someone nagging for sympathy and attention.
I read that perfectly normal post and was going to answer it with "everyone can get rejected, it's about finding the right person, sometimes you just don't stick no matter how lovely the other is." but then I saw all the stupid answers.
I can't help but to be disgusted to see that everyone read into this post and are presomptuous, assuming this was posted by an attention whore.
Why are you commenting here while some intolerant douche who thinks "atheist" is a religion and that everyone else should be exterminated gets approval in his comments? What the hell?!
If you're smart enough to read into a post and know who the fudge posted it at the first glance, you should also know you shouldn't be commenting on it and rather go bug the stupid intolerant guy.
Are you sure you arent overestimating just how "pretty" you are. If its just your mom telling you then well chances are you may not be that pretty after all. All the descriptive terms you used tells me you are pretentious.
This isn't about me personally and it doesn't state anywhere that it is.
No it doesnt state it anywhere that it is. But why else would you pose this for discussion? Dont be pretentious, it isnt very becoming.
I'm posting it for discussion because I'm interested?
I know many beautiful girls who have been rejected.
I have rejected beautiful girls and I was simply wondering what other people think of this.
In the media and society they make out that beautiful girls get everything.
I was interested in knowing if it's actually the opposite in real life.