Pretty boys-jerks :(

Throughout life I have known many boys who are pretty but pretty much jerkss also. It's unbeleviable how these men are so full of themselves. They change girls like socks daily, and its so dissapointing to see a very hot guy with a bad personality..It makes me think, , , will i ever get the real package? the looks and the personality.........hopeless romantic.

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  • easilygreat

    you're not a hopeless romantic. you're hopelessly shallow.

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  • cookiegirl

    you expect to find someone perfect, what m akes you think theyre perfect for them? you sound shallow anyways, like you have been a jerk to snart, nice guys cause they werent pretty enough

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    • b_randomguy

      Well said

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  • ThomasofTom

    Try an older man, we are usually done playing games and ready to find something more real

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  • RedPanther1

    For the most part, the hot guys act like that because nobody has ever set them down about it because of their looks. Lots of people overlook really annoying qualities just because the person happens to be attractive. As a result this tends to mean that most hot people never lose those annoying qualities because people are passively accepting them by still hanging around with them.

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  • You sound quite young to me but as you get older you will see there is much more to look for in a partner than looks.

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  • Justin_Case

    Your looking for Prince charming And why worry about wanting to date a hot guy, A hot guy will 90%% of the time treat you like sh*t while the medium to average looking guy will treat you like a queen

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  • shotgunstohalosx

    well it is the shallow females the fuel "pretty boy-jerks" and allow them to thrive. it's a two way street, you are just an ignorant shallow girl, what you like will change. probably just too young

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  • imsoweird_belivemeiknow

    agreed sister

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  • NotAgain..

    That has rarely been my experience.... They're usually very nice. Now the uglos, they seem pissed off at the world hahhahaa

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  • dopeXsweet

    I've also dated a few "ugly dudes" who turned out to be worse jerks than the pretty boys! But the pretty boys were always bad boys. Yes it is true they have deep down hearts of gold but it's all thorns on the outside. I like that list of how to tell if a guy is a womanizer-- I keep running into guys like this

    But the so called nice guys, again, have treated me bad due to genius or ego or past trauma.... But had the best manners in public and were great providers smh

    Nothing is promised

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  • Koda

    I've been called a pretty boy before, but it's always a backhanded compliment. I'm not vain!

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  • Ugh69

    I am a pretty boy, but I am also the NICEST person you will ever meet- in person that is. I know we are rare, just as pretty girls who happen to be nice are; however, we do exist. The downfall is, however, that one who fits this category may have other issues like genius (which can be problematic), low self-esteem, or clinginess.

    Even girls who are self-professed hopeless romantics seem to dislike all of thee above.

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  • jbmitchell999

    sgbslp got it right.

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  • jrphotographer

    Yes, thank you! It seems like most of the hot guys are real jerks sometimes. (not all of them though)

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  • Scrat

    well lets say no handsome man got a good personality ;) you should date other people ;)

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  • marley56

    Lol trust me their out there :)

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  • sgbslp

    I always avoided pretty boys b/c my dad was a pretty boy and he was a womanizer. So I married an ugly one, and he turned out to be a jerk, too.
    Follow these guidelines:
    1. Never marry a man who hated his mother and whose parents are conceited.
    2. Watch how he treats waitresses. If he is rude and demanding, dump him.
    3. Notice if he says please, thank you and excuse me. Can he admit fault.
    4. Do babies, chilten and animals evoke tenderness in him?
    5. If he is a big flirt, he will continue to flirt.

    In other words, a good man is fairly easy to spot if you know what to look for. These are things I see now that I was to stupid to see when I was younger. I paid the price.

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  • HellAndHighWater

    Lets make one thing clear: pretty boys KNOW how pretty they are. This means that they KNOW they can get whatever girl they want with a smile and a wink, so they do. Because they CAN- ANY guy in that position would do it.

    I agree with shotgunstohalosx- you sound pretty shallow and ignorant. If all you are looking for in a guy is attractiveness, that's all you're going to get.

    And don't expect to get a guy with a good personality if you don't have one yourself.

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  • HopelessRomanticUNO

    Guys i was thinking more in general..No i am not mean to nice guys, I talk to them too..but when it comes to the really pretty guys, they justt are horrible..

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  • There has to be something wrong with your judgement that you are not "seeing" guys who are attractive inside & out.

    I'd guess, like others here, that you are attracted to superficial qualities only to find that (SURPRISE) the rest are superficial.

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  • WetBrownStain

    I'll treat you like jello with fruit in it. Eat the good stuff and pick around the nasty bits. Then leave some left on the plate.

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  • xdamienlockex

    im sorry. guys arent perfect and i can apologize for my genders personality. but i have been the same way before to many people and i dont mean to hurt people its my physcial attraction to multiple women when u run into multiple people who find you attractive it builds up on you at certin points to turn every single person down despite who you will hurt in the long run.

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    • dopeXsweet

      What's so interesting is I am a female and I am this exact same way

      Wow

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      • rimjob

        I change women like socks but women do it to themselves. If they don't like it it's not my fault their insane.

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  • lurndsayoh

    Gosh. I hate these types of guys. My friend always says "All the hot guys are jerks. All the nice ones are ugly and the cute nice ones are just gay" but there are some who are cute, nice and aren't gay. Like my best friends brother ;)

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