Pregnant with partners child but..

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i found out a few weeks ago that i am 12 weeks pregnant me and my partner are very happy we have been together 1 1/2 years i no that isn't a long time but we love each other. we want to keep this baby because with his job and me working part time i think this will work out fine.
i am scared to tell my parents because they disapprove of this relationship from the start but he has vowed to stick by me and will support me he has been amazing so far and i think he will make a exellent farther but my question is
Should i Tell my college teachers about my pregnancy yet?
When do you think will be the safest time to tell my parents ?
when do you think the safest time to tell my friends about the pregnancy? Is it normal?

please help

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  • rockstar44
    9 years ago

    if u r confirmed about your preganancy you should tell your parents especially right now you can convince them there is no reason for which they will not belive you after all they love you

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    3 months is the appropriate time to tell people. Don't worry, even if parents disapprove of the choices their children make they usually adore their grandchildren, Good luck

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  • assh0le
    12 years ago

    It'll all end in tears - it usually does.

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  • joyfoster
    12 years ago

    Hey love,

    I graduated from college at the end of 2010 and, now working full time, fell pregnant with my partner of 1 year 8 weeks ago.

    I am considerably young however I believe that so long as you and your partner make an informed decision, you will be all right.

    Not aborting is a great decision (I have nothing against abortions) in my opinion, how much fun to have a baby!

    Right so, at 12 weeks you are through your first trimester and into your second. From now onwards you can tell people; the chances of miscarriage (largest in 1st tri) are now diminishing and your pregnancy is finalising. With only 6 months left in the pregnancy, having family and friends to support you is very important. Trust me, even the people who judge you with a negative opinion will come around when they see little bub and the success you and your partner will achieve.

    You are one step ahead, my partner left me for two weeks so having that support is vital.

    Be proud of the pregnancy, tell college staff earlier rather than later. I told my work at 6 weeks pregnant and I was promoted to a less labour intense/ stressful position. Just goes to prove people do care.

    Good luck!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    When the child graduates college.

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  • amili
    13 years ago

    At 3 mths when it is confirmed

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    doesnt sound to me that you are ready or completely happy about this pregnancy otherwise you would be chaffing at the bit to tell everyone. why dont your parents like the guy? how old are you? personally i think you should have taken more care into not getting pregnant but its too late now. you need to think about the baby and whether or not this is best for them.

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