Pre-sex masturbation is terrible

I think if you did masturbation before sex for better performance during intercourse :- it is a terrible idea . Coz your all sexual desires and feelings are lost . And that pleasure+sexual tension is no more .
The erection is weaker too :(

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  • Boojum

    This may be your experience and what you say may well be valid for you, but that does not mean it applies to everyone.

    My experience is that when I was young (as in up until my forties or so), masturbating before meeting a woman when I knew sex was likely to happen was a win-win. If it didn't happen, I wasn't left feeling quite so desperate for relief. If it did happen, I had no problems with my erection (because - duh! - I actually bloody wanted to have sex with the woman), and I was much more easily able to hold back my orgasm and so able to give her more pleasure.

    Maybe your libido is lower than mine was back then. That's fine, and you shouldn't be criticised or mocked for that, but nor should you declare that anyone who does this is stupid.

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    • Tell me the time before you went for masturbation ? Like , you jacked off one hour before sex ? Or probably 2 hours ?

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    • Doesnormalmatter

      Never thought of that! You might last longer in bed. Maybe I should try that shit! You seem to know so much about sex and relationships. Are you like a sexoligist or what mate?

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      • Boojum

        Just a dirty old man who writes porn and tries to keep things relatively real for totally imaginary people in completely imaginary scenarios.

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        • Doesnormalmatter

          Well you know your shit!

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          • Boojum

            Nah, I don't do scat - either IRL or in my stories.

            😁

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    This post is idiotic! You are totally and in every way wrong. I see how it could make sense that Masterbating could numb your sex drive, but that is not actually the case. Unless you are legitimantly addicted, masterbation will bot have negative effects. And without masterbating at all, you won't know what gets you off and what feels good and things like that. Masterbating like an hour before will of course be bad and make it difficult to get hard and cum, but I'm assuming that is not what you meant.

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    • I mean to say that:- masturbation cause loss of sex drive for some time ,,, for certain period of time ...

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      • Doesnormalmatter

        What period of time??? It should have been included in your post!

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    • einexile

      It is obviously what he meant. What time frame did you think was intended by "before sex for better performance during intercourse"? The years between puberty and losing virginity? Come on.

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      • Doesnormalmatter

        Isn't it kind of a no shit topic anyway? To me it is. What do people think, your penis is invincible? I assumed he wasn't that dumb to ask something so obvious, but maybe I have too high of standards.

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