Power in sex/relationships. make your choice.
Truth is: The majority of relationships have a bit of imbalance when it comes to power dynamics and/or who is most in control of how the relationship progresses.
(The could be covert as in manipulation OR overt as in one partner loves or desires the other one more than they do them OR unintentional as in one partner is more attractive or wealthy than the other).
I'm interested to see what kind of relationships most people prefer here. Chose one of the above, or comment below.
ALSO: Hold back the barking that "power games" have no place in relationships and be honest with yourself; it is not always intentional OR even a conscious decision. It simply happens that most relationships have one of the partners more at an advantage in some way or another.
Make your choice.
| Dominant female / submissive male (I'm a male) | 14 | |
| Dominant female / submissive male (I'm a female) | 12 | |
| Dominant male / submissive female (I'm a male) | 21 | |
| Dominant male / submissive female (I'm a female) | 17 | |
| Dominant male / submissive male (I'm a male - gay) | 8 | |
| Dominant female / submissive female (I'm a female - gay) | 1 | |
| Neither. Prefer to be single unless it's 100% equal and balanced. | 17 | |
| Asexual / Aromantic (Never want any kind of relationship.) | 1 |