Porn in a relationship

I personally think it is unacceptable for someone to watch porn when they are in a relationship, jacking off over someone else isn't much better than cheating. What do you think?

I'm male, and I think watching porn in a relationship is harmless 73
I'm male, and I think it's a bit wrong but I do it anyway 15
I'm male, and I hide it from my gf and think its wrong but still do it 8
I'm male and I rarely or never watch porn when I'm in a relationship 10
I'm male, and I agree watching porn is little better than cheating 2
I'm female, and I think my partner watching porn is harmless 17
I'm female, and I dislike my partner watching porn but I let him 8
I'm female, and I hate my guy watching but I'm sure he secretly does 8
I'm female, and I would consider breaking up with someone over it 22
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Comments ( 19 )
  • disthing

    I know quite a few girls who watch porn. Where's the "I'm female and I watch porn" option?

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  • ElectricGhost904

    First of all, masturbation is a very healthy thing, everybody does it. I can't just jack off to nothing and to me it's weird to jack off to a picture of your own gf or wife unless you're somewhere where all you have access to is pictures of her. There's no way my wife is going to give me ass every time I want it and sometimes I'd rather just jack off anyways. If you're jealous of some movie that you're bf or husband are jacking off to than you have issues. I love my wife, I don't wanna be with the women in porn, it's just visual stimulation to keep my dick hard and make me cum. Quit makin a big deal about it.

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  • BreakTheMold

    i tried watching it a few times, it just lost its "zing" you know? if you have the real thing why should you watch someone else do it? everytime i do, i think of my gf and stop watching it

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    • rosebudmarie

      you are a good man, and you are right..the REAL thing is what it's supposed to be. keep thinking of your girlfriend, and stop watching it overall :D

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  • porn+relationship=infedelity

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    • prometheusdude

      you must have forgotten jesus in that relationship.

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  • Ryan556

    There's an Easer way it goes like this
    Bang bang bang bang bang bang bang bang bang chum and sleep

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  • schtopp

    I'm a woman who used to compulsively watch porn to help masturbate myself. Almost every kind got me off. Then one day, I read the confessions of a multitude of female porn stars and grew up. it changed my thinking. All porn is rape. All porn is infidelity. If your sexuality breaches your imagination and creation, and MUST involve a human being degrading him or herself for the almighty $$$, then you have a disorder.

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  • thegift

    If the guy has to give up porn are you going to give it up everytime he wants some ass? Thought so.

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    • bleach_baby

      Since when do people have a right to get exactly what they want as soon as they want it? Fucking fast food culture.

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      • prometheusdude

        I quit eating that, its actually really hard when you come home late from work.

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      • rosebudmarie

        you are absolutely right

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  • wigsplitz

    Eh, it's a personal decision. I personally find it unacceptable.

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  • pleasehelp123

    meh i dont think your girlfriend would enjoy the fact you watch porn but i think she'll probably be okay with it. It's natural to masturbate anyways and natural to watch porn too.(im a girl by the way)

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  • charlie54321

    great for libido very healthy cant see the issue .its funny how people create things in there head . or feel the need to fight over is god real or my gods the real god. its just porn(in my opinion) . if its rape then its illegal if its underage then its illegal .its not complicated .Your relationship your decision . don't get in a relationship with someone who watches porn if ya feel that strongly about it . oh and don't get in a relationship with someone who doesn't believe in god etc .Almost seems a little wrong over something like porn .if ya enjoy it you enjoy it if ya don't ya don't

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  • truercheese

    My boyfriend told me he finds porn with girls that look like me because it turns him on more. He's shown me a couple of the girls and I guess we look kinda similar. I dunno if I should take looking like a porn star as a compliment though lmao.
    I find no problem with him watching it, regardless if the girls look like me or not. A ton of people do it.

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  • sheat

    it destroys your marriage and your self-stems goes down you feel depressed

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  • prasatko

    If watching porn is sexual cheating, then what about watching romantic movies...is it emotional cheating?

    I voted harmless. I love watching my girlfriend when she masturbates to porn and this habit increased the quality of our sex life, so I have just positive and no negative experience with porn in relationship. But different people, different opinions and different reactions to porn, it is understandable. Just wanted to share my experience

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  • Legion

    for one, ask yourself hows your sex life, is good, ok, or bad? Sometimes porn can bring some spice to your sex. Maybe you and him should start watching it together, and maybe even try something new that you saw in there. Just be careful, some moves can hurt you if done wrong.

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