Porn anyone?

Unless he is harming someone by watching said porn, you can't, and I mean CANNOT tell him no. That's just screwed up. What if he said to you "I HATE strawberries! You are never to eat them again!". Well, you are able to get sustenance from other foods, but you love strawberries. Would you not be pissed? You are trying to control someone's free will.

I think men just like porn you can't stop them watching it. As long as it doesn't interfere with your relationship too much.

I've masturbated to porn since I was 12 or 13. I'm 57 now and have been married to but one woman for 32 years. When we were younger my wife only wanted sex 1 or 2 times a week. I needed it at least once a day. So I filled in the gaps masturbating. She's even less interested in sex now but I still masturbate daily. Our relationship is good. I've been able to remain faithful. I'm SO thankful for porn.

In previous times, going to a whore rather than do your "respected" wife was considered normal. Before that, raiding villages and taking a wife as spoils of war was considered normal. Beating your wife with anything narrower than your thumb (aka the rule of thumb) was legal and considered normal. Just because all guys do something doesn't mean that they still are respecting you! Don't let a guy walk all over you - make him face what it really is: He's pretending to fuck other women. I'm glad you put him in your shoes too! There are plenty of guys out there who actually respect their SOs and won't watch it if you don't watch it... I have one. And for anyone who wants to say I don't understand - I used to be an adult film actress, have been on Club Jenna and Adam & Eve DVDs and STILL think that looking at porn is only okay if you are single!

If you're not okay with it, he should respect that and stop. If he can't then he's not your boyfriend anymore.

yeah porn is bad and for a lady like you he should be for you not random people who sell themselves for money online

I don't let my guy watch it either !!

It's normal and you shouldn't stop him, even though if i was in a relationship i wouldn't really feel the ned for porn.

you shouldn't discourage this because it is completely healthy and normal. and face it, wouldnt your rather him jack off using the porn (and probably thinking of you too) than go out and cheat?

I'm married to a recovering porn/sex addict. He admits his problem and is doing things to control and prevent it. I am in NO WAY a prude. I could stay in bed all day long with my husband if I could. The thing with his problem is that it DID interfere with our relationship. He was pushing me away and we didn't have sex for 3 weeks a year ago. I like porn, but it's nothing that I want to do without him. Anyway, he stopped for a while; almost 6 months and things were beautiful. He regressed and each time he would go on, it would be for longer periods of time and the content was borderline illegal. His excuse was that guys like porn and that as an adult and American citizen, he can watch whatever he wants simply because he can. After I sat down with him and told him that there is a difference between being an adult and being a mature adult and pointing out that he watched inappropriate porn anywhere from 4 to 8 hours, (he denied this until I showed him the history) and the fact that it scared the bejesus out of me and hurt me, he realized that it was a real issue. The thing is, if your bf doesn't recognize that this hurts you and claims that it has nothing to do with you, you will be fighting this issue for a very long time. I don't regret marrying my husband or staying with him, but it's hard and if you don't feel up to helping him or staying by him, then maybe it's time re-evaluate what you have with him. Good luck to you and I hope that things work out for you. :)

personaly i enjoy porn but only when im in between relationships when i have a girlfriend i forget porn as my needs are met porn is a tool i use when i cant get the real thing. Your man shouldnt need porn and should respect your feelings on the subject if he dose need it it may suggest deeper problems within your relationship. I have been in relationships when girlfriends where she enjoyed porn and we enjoyed it together but its not everyones cup of tea.

100%% Normal/ 98%% unrealistic.

Girls will be girls and boys will be boys. Give him a break sister! He isn't out there cheating on you. Let him have his dirty fun and be thankful you get some quiet time

For some guys porn makes it work without it his penis gets stiff or hurts more

If you don't want him to masturbate, satisfy him yourself.

I am a porn and sex addict.

society has given the impression that all men should watch porn and all men do it and its normal blah blah blah..and its okay for them to do. i disagree. its totally disgusting, especially if u have a girlfriend. guys dont realize that the girls they r watching are being degraded, being called sluts, whores, and are REAL PEOPLE HAVING SEX. whether its behind a computer or not, its a real person. in my eyes- if hes capable of watching a porn movie, hes capable of watching 2 people have sex in front of him...almost the same thing. if your bf respects you he wont watch porn and if he really LOVES and RESPECTS you, he wont do it either. society makes it seem okay while in a relationship and people think this too..but in reality its not okay and never should be while you are with someone

am a lady and cannot stop watching pregnancy hardcore porn and having a good masturbate to it all.
Its gotten to the point where I had to buy (and now wear) a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite to do the job it fells so much better than stuffing myself and the best thing I brought. I love wearing it while watching pregnancy hardcore porn or stuff re pregnancy on TV or YouTube then masturbate rubbing a bath towel in-between my fanny and crossing my legs, when no one is around. Has anyone else brought one of these practise pregnant belly suite? I am thinking of wearing my suite one day around my village to see if any looks at me and to see how much turned on I get.

I too cannot see women, friends, family members or teachers pregnant in real life without being wet below and sexily aroused.I believe I would have to see something about pregnancy to get me in the mood before sex God I am so turned on now I need to go masturbate good and hard, as I am very wet too. View my story to read more!

Check what he's looking at then you'll no what your not giving him. I started looking at porn when my wife started her menopause she lost intrest in sex and I've got even more horny than ever I'm only 50 and fit she's 47 and fit but frigid

at op: as a fair trade off you should give up masturbation too.

I think it's fine to masturbate while in a relationship bit porn is a gray area, I say if you don't put out he can watch porn

I don't think there's anything wrong with that, me and my boyfriend watch porn together!

I've watched that one sex talk show with that old lady once with a woman talking about masturbating more when SHE WAS in a relationship, because she was horny! Being in a relationship can make a person even more horny.

When I realized my boyfriend watched porn occasionally, I tried not to let it bother me. But when I actually took a look at some of the stuff he was watching, I realized it would drive me crazy to know he was watching it. So I asked him to stop, and he did, without complaint. It's completely normal.

Maybe you should make your own privately-made videos. Lol. Then maybe you wouldn't mind so much. xD

i think that porn is a normal thing for a man or a woman to watch and masterbate to. im still a teen and i watch porn everyday. i say there is nothing wrong with it . i think its super sexy!

God you all are so stupid.
And immature.
Guess what? No matter what he tells you, he will ALWAYS masturbate.
And if you nag him, you're an annoying jealous girlfriend. I bet girls who cry about their men watching porn won't let them out of the house without a leash.

oh, and you should forget the word no when asked for sex. Failing to do either of this 2, SHUT THE FUCK UP!

If you are still going out with your boyfriend then WOW. my girlfriend try to make me not wach porn when we were going out, so i when along with it. because we were having regula sex. but then she wouldnt want to have sex so i would look at porn she would have a cry so we broke up. and trust me it was wearth it. girls in porn do things that REAL NORMAL girl will never do!:)