Poll on love vs. sex

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Lets talk about sex verses love. Which one do you think is more important for you? Which one do you pursue more? I'm talking about romantic live here not like family or friend love.

To help give context, here would be the extremes. At the most romantic we would have a person in a monogamous relationship that is super commited and would be fine with no sex at all. For them its all aboit enjoying life together and they don't give a fuck about sex and have no sex drive.

On the other end is only sex. Would have sex with anyone and everyone without caring about anything else. High sex drive and pursues sex alone without the desire for a single iota of personal connection or commitment to one person.

Now vote in the poll please and feel free to elaborate on your descion in the comments!

100 percent sex no love/romance at all. 1
80 percent sex, 20 percent love/romance. 2
60 percent sex, 40 percent love/romance. 1
50-50. 6
60 percent love/romance, 40 percent sex. 3
80 percent love/romance, 20 percent sex. 14
100 percent romance, no sex. 6
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  • CozmoWank
    4 years ago

    It's easy to find someone to stick your dick into (Or have someone stick their dick into you if that's your thing). It's harder to find meaningful love.

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      I wouldn't consider it easy. Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

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  • megadriver
    4 years ago

    50-50, as in I'm committed to only one woman fully, but I still want us to have lots of sex.

    Cause if we just sit around telling each other how much we love each other, have cute pet names, watch romcoms under candle light and all that stuff, without sex it's gonna be a damn disaster.
    If a woman were to tell me we won't have sex, but she still loves me... she is gonna see the longest burnout ever, as I speed off into the distance.

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Lol. That sir is a very well defended position.

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  • Ummitsstillme
    4 years ago

    Sex with out love/romance can exist and actually be great in and of itself, but what is love/romance without sex? That romance part changes everything...

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Yeah most people would not say romance with no sex is any good, but sex can be goos without romance in my opinion. But then again there are times when romance makes sex better.

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  • charli.m
    4 years ago

    You know it's possible to be 100% on both, right?

    The way you've worded your question, 50/50 doesn't equate to that. It implies you're half commited to either side.

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      If your '100 percent' on both, your vote is 50/50 option.

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      • charli.m
        4 years ago

        ...and here we go again with you completely unable to understand that other people think in different ways to you.

        Maybe when you grow up you'll understand that. But then, a lot of people never learn.

        ...aaand you edited your comment to make it entirely different. Of course.

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        • Doesnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          You gonna vote or na? Which one do you think about most? How much would you be upset if you no longer got sex?

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          • charli.m
            4 years ago

            Yeah...you're totally convincing us all you're not a desperate virgin.

            And we totally don't know which posts are your spam. You are SUBTLE AS FUCK.

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            • Doesnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              Can you please stay on task? This is a post about sex vs love. I don't even know what you are trying to argue, you just sound triggered.

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago

    Anything above 60% sex it's just more efficient to get a fuck buddy or a hooker. Sex is great though but I've got a unique personality and anyone who finds it sexy is a rarity.

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    • SomethingQuiteRecognizable
      4 years ago

      A hooker well that'll get you arrested for prostitution or give you stds

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      • LloydAsher
        4 years ago

        Fuck buddy then or how matter put it an open relationship.

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        • CozmoWank
          4 years ago

          Fuck buddies can mean std's as well. They may have other fuck buddies.

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          • LloydAsher
            4 years ago

            🌈Condoms🌈

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            • CozmoWank
              4 years ago

              Where's the fun in that?
              I'd rather stroke one out.

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Or an open relationship. I'm suprised more people don't have those nowadays. What did you vote in my poll?

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    I am the OP once again. And my vote would go for 80 percent sex and 20 percent love in case anyone is wondering.

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    • LloydAsher
      4 years ago

      I'm inverted honestly on the list.

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        What do you mean? You never come out of the closet on posts?

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  • TerriAngel
    4 years ago

    Love and sex very often are totally unrelated.
    For that reason, this is a HARD POLE
    to answer.( pun intended)

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Lol nice. Yeah this is a difficult poll and I reckon its difficult for people to be honest. And then you have Charlie.m who thinks you can be 100 percent on both lol.

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