Please help! urgent! please ...confused

Ummm... What if he is gay? Ur freakin out already. If he IS gay, he needs understanding and compassion. Wait, um... Are YOU gay? Is this why ur freakin'??

I would say it's normal. If he's gay, he's gay. There's nothing you can do about it. Assuming your the only one that knows about it, don't go blabbing to anyone. Instead, go and tell him what you've found. Since he's 11, I don't think he's actually gay. He's probably just curious. Either way you should still talk to him about it.

It is normal if he is gay

he got a labtop for his birthday? i want one

Woah! Not touching this one.

It's normal.., at his age is just curiosity... Don't talk to him about it... He first must grow up and discover his own sexuality... The same thing happened to me with my younger brother and today he's straighter than an arrow.

If he is gay he is gay, just except your brother for who he is, he is no different then you and I or any other human being on the planet.

wanna know for sure? ask him!

My cuzn is 12 he used to do the same thing he grew outta it tho

Anyways, I believe he is just one of those kids going through a "Phase." If he actually turns out to be a homosexual or heterosexual, support him.

@Kharnthebetrayer
WTF

Ew that's gross. Tell your parents or something! Confront your brother and see what he says.

He's 11.he's a guy. He's going through puberty. Its normal.

When i was 11 ( i know this sounds wrong but) me and my friend looked at porn and we would wank to it right next to each other! The nights i slept over his we would sleep naked and touch eachother and would to what would gy ppl do but we were not gay. Its just puberty kicking in

what kind of 11 yr old gets a laptop?

hmm maybe it is normal!you guys are right. he might be just curious! if hes gay hes gay! sorry guys i was just in shock now im over it.:) still i hope hes not gay... P.s i DONT have a problem with gay people! I love them!just never thought my OWN brother might be gay. :) thanks guys :)

Take him to a catholic church and if you sit at the front and look at him and start to see his face melt then he is GAY..... Lmfao..... I'm gay btw.....

I think he is just curious. At 11 years old, he isn't going to know if he is gay or not. He is probably starting to go through puberty and is wondering what is "NORMAL", and the answer to that is: Everybody is different! nothing is normal! A person can find beauty in people of the same sex, and that does not make them gay. What makes a person gay, is enjoying being "sexual" with a person of the same sex. He's 11, has he had sex yet? Has he been molested? Is he being abused or molested by someone? Those are the things you should be worrying about, not whether or not he is gay. Just my opinion. Love your brother for WHO he is, don't hate him for WHAT he does.

You should have a peaceful and calm talk with him about it

I can only tell u what happened w me. I was 16 and found stuff in my brothers (who was 14) room in a shoebox. There were pics of men and some gay porn it. I always thought he might b gay but never had confirmation before that moment. I kinda freaked out cause it became real. I never told him and 6 months later he told me himself, he was gay. He was never the girlie gay but straight guy gay. As a sister you hv to hv some clue. This really can't be that big of a shock to you. My brother could b purple w blue polka dots and I would love him anyway. Gay is not WHO he is, he's just who he be and I love him for that.

Poor you I feel bad because I'm pretty sure he is but dont just take my word for it

It's normal in many ways and not in others! Try to relax and maybe just talk to him he could just be very curious and not understanding!! If he is gay it will become clear eventually and if that the case love him and support him he is still your brother!!

He is probably just confused or something.

But dont enter hes privacy like hes laptop and do those stuff, its really embarrassing for him(I would be).

I kinda watch half naked men on youtube all the time just to compare myself with them.

Like the many who have already said, so what if he is gay? That would be normal, despite the current sociological trend.
Just try to be understanding about it and not treat him like hes a freak =/

Well, you could trying being supportive of your brother. And maybe you shouldn't be so nosy.

its normol

idk how to tell u this butta, he might be GAY!

It might just be a stage.
Every human being, whether they admit to it or not, has been or will be curious about their own sexuality.
Let him figure it out on his own.
But no matter what his sexual preference is, he is still your brother and you should love him the same.

Seriously wtf?
Uf he is gay then he is gay.
And it sounds like you are trying to get attention for your little bros situation.
Grow up there are alot of homosexuals out there just like there are alot of people make a situation sound bigger so they get attention.

Sounds like your brothers gay, just accept him and move on

Wow really? He is definitely gay. The guys in your school draw penises because they find it funny. But if he is looking up gay porn and drawing naked men he is probably interested in men.

U sound like a bitch. Theirs nothing wrong wt being gay.

to answer your question. what kind of guy would search naked men on the web?? he's gay