Please help me. what if my crush is gay? iin?

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Alright, well, I have this crush. He's a year older than me. And, I'm not sure about this, but my friends and I think that he could possibly be gay. It didn't occur to me at first until someone said that he might be, and now it's been on my mind ever since. I don't know what to think, because he doesn't seem like he's gay to me.

He's constantly talking to me in class, and apparently, he flirts with me too. It makes me feel really happy, but then I go back to thinking that he could possibly be gay. Is this norma?

He's got some kind of strut to his walk, and he uses hand gestures a lot when he's talking. I know that that's an Italian thing, but I'm not sure he is. He sort of has a vibrant personality, and there's something about the way he talks. Not his voice in general, but basically how he makes himself sound. He also makes a lot of eye contact - which I love.

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    He probably isn't gay. I knew a friend a bit like that, lots of people thought he was gay but he wasn't, he was just confident and slightly camp. You are probably worrying about nothing.

    Think of it this way: If he is gay, he thinks of you as a good friend, and if he thinks of you as a good friend he would probably have told you that he was gay. If he isn't, he probably likes you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Hey if you like someone, you like someone. You can't control how you feel. You aren't sure if he is in fact, Gay, so don't be assuring about it. Hang out with him a couple more times, see his personality , don't read it.

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  • Dolcevita
    12 years ago

    Are you asking if its normal for him to be gay or for you to like a gay guy?? If youre in HS, he may not yet know if hes gay or straight. Im gay and 27, but didnt realize i was even bi till I was 19. In HS i dated guys exclusively.

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  • Boredbastard
    12 years ago

    it's really frustrating when a crush is gay.

    i know like 9 of my girl-friends are gay and the girl i like... i'm afraid to think about it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Recently I thought the same thing about a guy in my class, so I chatted him up a lot until he mentioned his girlfriend. So I knew he was straight. You could just ask this guy if he has a girlfriend and see what he says.

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