Please help me make a very important decision

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Get this: at my school there this really hot blonde chick who flirts with me all the time, and I mean super flirting too like more than any other chick has flirted with me before, we also talk a ton on Facebook and text. And we have a ton in common too, we get along very well and she's very smart. I would ask her out in a heartbeat, BUT there's just one problem: she's my best friend's girlfriend. And this guy is a really really good friend too, we've never gotten in any fights or anything. I want to keep him as my bro, but I want her so bad! What should I do? (Please don't give me that "trust your heart" or "only you know the answer" crap)

Take her, ditch your friend 2
Keep your friend, it probably won't work out 40
Try to get her to cheat somehow 1
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago | pl

    If she flirts with you when she already has a guy, then don't you think she'll do the same to you? She's a tramp and not worth the friendship or your time. Move on.

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  • SometimesNaive
    9 years ago

    She's currently in a relationship? Don't be a dick, if she really wanted to date you she would. Keep her a little distant if you can.

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  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago | pl

    She's playing you. If you get with her, it won't last. In the end, you'll end up without a girlfriend and without a best friend.

    Save your friendship by staying away from her.

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    • charli.m
      9 years ago

      Why would anyone thumb this down? :/

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      • Parky_Parker
        9 years ago

        You win some, you lose some.

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  • dasugaknows
    9 years ago

    It depends how much you value that friendship. You say thats your best friend, so that must mean he is important. I have seen this happen before and it didnt work out. First of all, you and her are not going to work out in the end because she will go back and fourth between the two of you with the flirting and whatnot. She is getting a kick right now from being with your friend and having you drool over her. Some girls are like this, they just love all the attention they can get. Even if she were with you, she would need some other guy to flirt with to keep her satisfied and a lot of times the bfs friends r convenient.

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  • Shackleford96
    9 years ago

    I agree with the others, she's not worth ruining the friendship over.

    Plus, this:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XkSmLh2Hbi0

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    Ten years from now it is MUCH more likely that you guys will still be friends than it is that that girl and you will fall in love and stay together for those same ten years. Put some perspective to the problem and it should become clear to you.

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    Wait for them to break up.

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  • ItoldYaIwasTrouble
    9 years ago

    Don't bother with her trust me on this 1 she's playing you both for fools. Remember the BRO'S BEFORE HOE'S rule my friend no point in falling out over some dumb C**K teasing S**T

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  • WeirdMe
    9 years ago

    shes only a slut, nothing special. forget about her

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Bros before hoes... bro.

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  • ThePurplePanda
    7 years ago

    Bros before hoes! Friendships always outlast relationships!

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    First World Problems

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