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Im a girl, 5'0, about 110. But I feel like a cow. Am I really over weight, either way I feel hideous no matter what people tell me? Just no matter what I do i can't seem to get a man
You're a perfectly healthy weight. I am that exact same size and people tell me I'm skin and bones all the time.
You're fine. Getting a man can be hard depending where you live and your personality. Don't beat yourself up about it. When I was young I couldn't even get a date for love or money yet now I have no problem finding dates. Working on yourself is probably the best thing. Having a partner can be a great thing but an unhappy person generally leads to unhappy relationships, no matter how good the partner is. If you can't be happy on your own the chances of you being happy in a relationship are slim.
You're not overweight although I can understand you looking for a reason you feel you don't attract men.
You might have a psychiatric nervous disorder. You should see a doctor.
Also, it is beneficial to be eating a balanced and nutritious diet and most importantly, exercising regularly (3-5 times a week). Natural exercises are best (walking, running [don't jog], swimming, climbing, etc.).
Moooooooooo.
You have eyes, you have a mirror. You know you aren't fat. So stop fishing for compliments on the internet, it's fucking embarrassing.
First of all, I'm really sorry about how some of the people here have responded. People can be horribly cruel sometimes. I wish IIN were a safer place.
I've been struggling with some of the same things you are for years, now, feeling fat regardless of my weight. If you need somebody to talk to, you can email me at [email protected] I can't promise that I'll have solutions for you, but I can listen and empathise. You don't have to email me. I won't be offended if you don't. But I'm here if you need me.