People with body mods/tattoos: how does society treat you?

Fine

My dad has mostly military tattoos from when he was young, and he's treated really well.

I've always wondered, isn't the point of body modification to reject societies "norms" and not give a fuck about it?

Because my brother has facial piercings, ear stretchers and dyes his hair crazy colours... and he just has a very "devil may care" attitude about it. If you don't like it then eh whatever.

I don't have any insane mods but i do have sleeves of tattoo and they treat me fine , find it attractive or cool if male . I am also attractive , this might help also , not sure .