People think i'm gay

I am completely hetero but for some weird reason people assume I'm gay, let me give you some insight. In middle school I told a girl I liked her friend and she told me she thought I was gay and a few days ago a gay kid got my number from a (girl) friend of mine and tried to ask me out, even my doctor and my own parents asked me if I liked boys. I don't know what it is that I do that makes people think about me like that, maybe the fact that I don't hit or flirt with girls because I'M SHY. I dress normal (jeans, sweatshirts, normal t-shirts) by the way.

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Based on 38 votes (19 yes)
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Comments ( 27 )
  • jeremybrown75

    Gays or homosexual is person sexually attracted to people of one's own sex. If you are a boy who is attracted to girls, you are not gay, and are straight. Its your preference that is the real deal, and no one can judge you based on their perception. Build some confidence and try to overcome your shyness with girls, best of luck...

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Maybe it's a vibe you are giving off.

    People are so fickle kill them with fire.

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  • Jetta95

    I was asked at the weekend myself, hetero and have only ever been with girls and been interested in girls. I asked why she thought I was gay and she said that I gave off that persona. I can relate to yourself as I would like to have a girlfriend but I don't want to be giving off that type of vibe. 20 years old myself

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  • mypenisinyourmouth

    Gay people also dress normal.
    It's okay to be gay, Steven.

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    • jeremybrown75

      The op never asked whether it is ok to be gay or not, and even if he did think it is not ok, you have no right to change his feelings...

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      • mypenisinyourmouth

        The op also never said his name was Steven. I was talking to Steven over a matter which does not involve you.

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  • Ass_gas

    People say that about me. I am a metro-sexual; men make be puke, but women make my cock a bone of steel. All I can think of is how wonderful spurting endless squirts of sperm into them would be.

    I just don't understand why people think I'm a fag. Like what the fuck?

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    • I don't even consider myself a metro-sexual since I have relatively old clothes that don't look that great on my skinny body and I don't even style my hair, just fuzz it around with no hair product and that's how I go about my day. I do care a lot about my hygiene but that's about it. I don't want to be thought of as a fag scaring women away and attracting the homo either :(

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      • Ass_gas

        At least I don't attract homos.

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  • Drakonski

    Shy people always get misinterpreted by extroverts. If you don't constantly have a girl wrapped around your arm, oh gee, you must be gay ... People are just really f***in' stupid and full of themselves.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Don't worry about all these raging assholes, dear heart. No offense, but people in general, especially adolescents, can be major league assholes. If you're straight fine, if you're gay fine. It's no big deal they're just stupid, ignorant people who happen to enjoy stereotyping others about whom they know nothing. These people must be hella bored and boring as well if they have nothing better to do with their time than gossip and speculate as to your sexual preference. Just because someone is quiet and reserved doesn't mean that person is one way or another. Please don't let this bullshit get you down too much, because these assholes aren't worth your used toilet paper much less your time, energy and emotions. Hang in there.
    ;-)

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    • I mean, it's okay if they think I am gay, I won't get offended, but the real problem and what really bothers me is when a girl won't make a move because she thinks I don't like girls or a guy makes a move. I just want it to be the other way around.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Totally understandable. Try working up the courage to ask out the next cool chicken you meet.

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        • RoseIsabella

          God Damn this fucking auto correct bullshit is not letting me type slang or curse words! Fuck this phone, fuck it the ass with no lube and a spiny, tiger dick!!!

          I meant to say try working up the courage to ask out the next cool chick you meet.

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  • KingTermite

    Something you're doing is giving that air so examine your behaviours it's in there somewhere.

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  • Paigiepoo

    Normal , gay is such a topic now. Girls your age run in packs, it must suck.
    Hang in there man ... There are women that feel the same way as you... Yet are missing the link

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  • Paigiepoo

    cool man ,your women options just blew up! Now all girl doors are open!
    Jealous

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    • What do you mean? My girl doors are closed ;_;

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      • Paigiepoo

        Your strait?

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        • RoseIsabella

          Why can't you spell?

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          • Paigiepoo

            Auto correct

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            • RoseIsabella

              Okay, ask you were, but you must either talk a lot about the Bering Strait or be a big fan of George Strait for your auto correct to do that.

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        • Yeah... Hetero = straight

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  • mysistersshadow

    ...For some weird reason...

    Yea about that. Its only weird to you becos you aren't seeing it but apparently everyone else does. You MUST be showing some clear stereotypical gay behavior.

    But whatever whats really interesting is that something that happened in middle school reverberated all the way to now since you must be 18 to be posting here thats quite a long memory every one has.

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    • I am actually 19 and I have a really good memory for small details.

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      • mysistersshadow

        Apparently so does everyone you know. But whatever I don't care if your gay or not gay or everyone thinks your gay its your problem and I already told you why its happening. Maybe put that mind for small details to work on fixing the problem you perceive that your having.

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  • Paigiepoo

    And I think your gay.... Kidding

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