People hate me because i'm ugly

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I am ugly and my bro is very good looking.I have been treated very bad all my life.My family,friends,relatives all treated me like i was crazy.I have been looked down like i was someone's sidekick.People comment on how bad i look that destroyed my ego/self confidence.I wanted to die but then thought about my family and restrained myself.Now i'm engaged to a girl(arranged marriage).I don't want to destroy her life by marrying her.I don't want her to feel that her husband is an asshole/looser.I'm not sure she will be happy with me.I feel like a looser from all directions.

I can't take it anymore.I don't have any self confidence left to live.I want to die

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  • JustAegis
    7 years ago

    The sole fact that you are wondering how your wife would live with you and if she would be happy instead of thinking about yourself means you're a good person. Just don't lose it. Talk to a professional if you think you need it. Believe me, it can do wonders.

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    OMG dude please try not to feel like that, please stop and take a think about your whole life,
    You will see some good in you and good parts, I mean engagement is based on so much more than stupid looks.... like please don't hate yourself for something that's not even your fault, were born with the looks we are given, I also don't believe people especially family could hate you for just looks, please sit down and have a chat with them and discuss this. Hope this helps you out :-)

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    The only one who hates you is yourself. Hating someone takes a ton of constrained effort that, unless you've gravely wronged someone, no one else will bother with.

    The easiest thing to do is nothing at all. And that will make you miserable. So don't do the easy things. Start making habits of working out, studying and getting a better job. Improve your style, take care of your skin, get a good haircut.

    Count your calories and lose weight. The fact is, if you want to get out of this miserable state you'll have to suffer for it. The suffering doesn't get easier but you do get tougher.

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  • mrbrownfinger
    7 years ago

    Was it an arranged engagement? Does she know how you look?

    Once you have a woman by your side, who cares what you look like?

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