Pedo phobia illogical?

Is Pedophobia illogical. i was told that anyone seeking help knows that their fear is illogical but am i wrong or just weird that children sort of scare me. I am not someone who is militant or anything but i get anxtious being near those that cant control themselves who are most often than not children. i bet i must sound really crazy to any readers but its such a real anxiety for me. since children are so free spirited and encouraged to be for whatever purposes, many times they are allowed to and sometimes run amuck. i am told that all people do this and that i probably did but for some reason i dwell on the potential for misbehaiover and have a hard time stopping. many of the children i am surrounded by can be so disrespectful that i makes me not want to associate with them. is this bad. as far as my childhood goes, i was the shy kid who got taken advantage of a lot and as family life is concerned i got chastised for rational things and never got hit for any normal age realted behavior. i fear this fear because the person i want to spend my life with may want children down the road and I wonder if i am indeed normal.

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Based on 71 votes (44 yes)
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  • joyfoster

    ^ Great guys, well done.

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  • ADOLF_HITLER269

    im just putting a random comment

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  • HITLER_ADOLF

    IT IS NORMAL TO BE SCARED OF CHILDREN. PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE SCARED OF CHILDREN BECAUSE OF THE PHOBIA. PEDOPHOBIA IS JUST ANOTHER PHOBIA LIKR THE REST. because im black!!!!!!!!!

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  • red_gal_85

    What aspect of being around children makes you worry the most? Is it that they act up or are you somehow afraid for them? I worked in several daycares and have come to the conclusion some kids just suck! But others can be wonderful. I think you need to really think about your fear break it down see if you can find more answers this could stem from some memory of your childhood. But you may be surprised to find that when you have kids of your own you won't feel the same about them I know lots of self appointed kid haters who changed their tune after having kids (at least toward their own kids)

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  • NormalityMan

    Normal fear, common. Is it illogical? In a way yes. Children are relatively harmless. They can be a bit frightening since they are the least predictable humans though. I understand your fear. I dont fear them though. You'll get over your fear eventually.

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  • babyjhonny

    As an Adult baby i know that the majority of the genral public offten mistake Infantilism for pedophilia and that scares the crap out of me. All infantilists are activley against pedophiles since we are at risk from them as well as children. the diffrence between a Pedophille and an infantilist is simply put. A Pedophile is sexually atracted to children an infants, this is not a fetish this is sick.

    (The Dictionary defonitiion of a Fetish is a Sexual atraction to a Non-Sexual part of the Body or Object.)

    A Diaper Lover (DL) is sexually atracted to the diaper itself, since the diaper is a non sexual object this is classed as a fetish.
    An Adult Baby actually Wants to be a Baby to be cared for as an infant or toddler still in diapers, to return to that state of pure innocence, comfort, security, no emotional pain, no understanding of the way the world works, pure ignorence, pure bliss, parental love . Almost every AB you ask will have difficulty trying to explain this. All i can enphisise to you all is that the majority of AB's are emotionaly driven, the majority of Dl's are Sexually Driven and all Infantilists are activley against Pedophillia.

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    • HITLER_ADOLF

      loser!!!

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  • HITLER_ADOLF

    HAHAHAH

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  • ADOLF_HITLER269

    Is Pedophobia illogical. i was told that anyone seeking help knows that their fear is illogical but am i wrong or just weird that children sort of scare me. I am not someone who is militant or anything but i get anxtious being near those that cant control themselves who are most often than not children. i bet i must sound really crazy to any readers but its such a real anxiety for me. since children are so free spirited and encouraged to be for whatever purposes, many times they are allowed to and sometimes run amuck. i am told that all people do this and that i probably did but for some reason i dwell on the potential for misbehaiover and have a hard time stopping. many of the children i am surrounded by can be so disrespectful that i makes me not want to associate with them. is this bad. as far as my childhood goes, i was the shy kid who got taken advantage of a lot and as family life is concerned i got chastised for rational things and never got hit for any normal age realted behavior. i fear this fear because the person i want to spend my life with may want children down the road and I wonder if i am indeed normal. why am i such a loser

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    • ADOLF_HITLER269

      hi I smell

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      • HITLER_ADOLF

        DAMN RIGHT

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    • HITLER_ADOLF

      BECUASE YOU ARE

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  • ADOLF_HITLER269

    hahahahahahahahahaha

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  • ADOLF_HITLER269

    another comment from me lol

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  • HITLER_ADOLF

    you racist son of a bleep!!!!

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