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What would your reaction be if your partner called you their friend? My bf called his dad on speaker today, he said I'm at my friends Sarah's house when his dad asked. I'm his girlfriend. And idk. What would you guys think of your partner said that? I didnt say anything cause I havent met them yet and I want to see what terminology he uses without outside interference. He used to he married. And idk. Friend. Seems do impersonal..
Did you ever have the conversation where you explicitly acknowledged you are boyfriend and girlfriend? If not then he is not your boyfriend.
If you did it sounds like he is hiding your relationship from his parents. There could be many reasons for this, not all of them his fault. I recommend you calmly bring it up saying something along the lines of, “Hey, earlier when you were speaking to your dad I noticed you called me your friend, have you told him we’re together?”.
This doesn't seem like something that you should be shy about asking him directly.
My best GF ever just happens to be my wife. But that friendship at that level did not occur until well after we were married.
I do in fact call her my best GF ever frequently, and treat her as my best GF - including that I still plan dates with her. Trust me that this helps keep things sizzling.
Too many married people start to relax and make assumptions about their long term SO or spouse for a after a while. That is not good long term, and relationships fail when you stop being friends.
You should remind him that yes you want to be his best friend... and he should always treat you as such (and you should treat him as such). That includes the fact that you refer to each other as "friends."
Enjoy life and your male friend to the fullest.
Well, since you are saying "bf" i assume hes a guy, lol. Now in that respect, hes probly thinking "friends with benefits" or "fuckable friends". I will say cut him just a wee bit of slack, after all he is a guy. And we aint to smart sometimes.
Hell, i actually made a bet once with an ex gf that i had more bras than she did. Doesnt sound bad, i i ow weird for some but i had forgot to talk to her about me being a crossdresser. Not to smart either.
But on the upside if he doesnt come back around to where you feel he should be, its so very easy for women to to get another guy if she wants. For us guys we almost need to tie a stack of $100 bills to our genitals and a steak around our neck to get a womans attention. Lol
How long have you two been dating ?
Has he said to you I want you to be my girlfriend ?
My guess is he's not ready to tell his parents he has a girlfriend .
But you should ask him .