Partner's addiction to porn normal or not

Some porn sometimes is fine but when its porn over wife it sucks.

Am I the only woman here that honestly thinks that porn isn't really that bad? I'm not saying that I love it or anything I just honestly couldn't care less whether my partner watches it (which he does- we often sit down and watch it and have a laugh). Perhaps if he felt comfortable talking to you about porn and if you were open to watching it with him you may find that he is more interested in sex. If you reduce the stigma around his actions he will feel more comfortable being himself around you and that you accept him for who he is

Wut a retard porn over gf who decides to Jack it instead of the real thing this guys outa his mind

It's completely normal. I don't know the extent of his porn watching but sometimes it's just more convenient to masturbate as opposed to having sex. It's requires less effort and after a long day at work I'd rather masturbate real quick then have to go through all the foreplay and pleasing the wife.

You can talk to him about it, maybe he will stop. Or you can show interest in his porn, act out his fantasies. Seeing you try something totally new will be a turn on for him.

It's normal..... but you need to like, distract him from porn...... maybe watch some of the porn he likes and just take ideas from them and use them to your advantage to get intimate with him =D

I don't get how they still watch porn when they have a gf who is there for them exclusively. Unless she doesn't like sex, I don't see why he should be watching porn.

Im sorry but there is a thing called being a compulsive masterbter and maby hes addicted to masterbateion, and it can happem

but other than that i dont why he would pick porn over a woman, i know i would trad in a flash:(

Men like this are assholes. They choose porn over their own woman. There is no such thing as being addicted to porn it's a bullshit excuse

I'm sorry you have to go through this ,men are pigs. Find some hot guy and drool over him. Make him feel like crap,like he's not good enough. The asshole deserves it.

There's no man in the world between 20 and 50 with who doesn't watch porn regularly (unless not physically or mentally able)
Women often think that even 30 minutes of porn every day is an addiction. It's not
the second he spends hours and hours watching porn, see a psych.

I'm realy sorry for you but guys like that never change and they are mostly assholes. I've been in same situation like you have and it is so painful. There is nothing wrong with you I think. Guys sometimes doesn't realize what they have and if he doesn't know how great you are... What's the point of spending life together. I don't know but I'm sure there is million guys who appreciate you more. Sorry for putting serious comment like this.

I think that all guys like to look at porn on the net, both straight and gay and whether they are married or single. Anyway, there is so much porn on the net it is difficult to avoid. My advice to the wife is to go and look at some porn sites showing lusty males and let her husband know she gets turned on by looking at the sexy guys.
Maybe he will feel jealous and it might lead to awesome sex between you.

Soon porn will not be enough to satify him.....he will go elsewhere to find something that will give him the same high that porn once did....
He needs to get help....and I am sure you love him but I think you should leave him because what he is doing is disrespectful towards you!
It will not get any better....unless he gets help...although he probably thinks he is just fine...

my advice watch it with him and get freaky!!! he will probalby stop watching it less and get some lingerie and act oUT some porn scenes with him, wear those high heels and go wild and crazy with him i bet u he'll get away from that lap top!! and eventually he'll watch it less! put make up on some lipstick and have some sexual fun!!!! ENJOY!!!!

His woman*

A man won't watch porn if his women provides all the imagination he could ever muster up. QFT.

i used to feel like that when my hubby used porn does not bother me now at all does not mean he doesnt luv or desire you ,i also now use porn and sometimes prefer it as my orgasm is more intense ,this may be the case for your hubby ,why not try to enjoy it also might spice things up for you xxx

If he loves you he would not do it when ur around what a fucking shit.
He will come to a point were the porn know longer works for him. He will become desecerstized to it and wont even get a hard on. He will udouthadly look for more extreme stuff like rape gang rape or child porn.

If he dose not stop leave him ASAP. I hope your kid's are grown up.

Well watching porn over n over especialy discusting and abnormal stuf will make it harder and harder for a man to get a stiffy. Hes not helping himself and its an actual addiction. and it is bad. If i was in your shoes id say its me or porn. fool lol

Ok BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!! HE IS A SCUMBAG!!!! This is not normal!!!! R u crazy!? That is not love. That is sick and abusive behavior! Seriously u r so much better off without a loser like that!

There is something in the porn he watches that you ain't doing honey. Do you let him give you facials? That could be VERY exciting to him. Whatever it is I bet he is watching things that you deprive him of. He is normal. You seem to have pushed him away from intamacy.

after a big fight we talked about it and he promised to stop and delete and delete saved porn and obscene pics from his laptop. but he never studies/experiments (electronics) again as he did when he was free to surf the net for porn. i feel bad about it. it's kind of a punishment. but anyway now it's better porn free. i hope it lasts

^I agree here

^ Exactly

Porn is cancer, he needs help. Pro-porn people are living in a bubble of lies.

do a lil sumting choose another position or just get one of those slutty outfits for ur modling time with him