Painful sex after 10+ times

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my boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and I decided to finally loose my virginity , well the first time was horrible and I expected that. It would NOT go in , like it was just not even possible it wasn't about how much pain I could tolerate it just wouldn't fit! I was sore and itchy after for couple of days. now after the 10+ time I am just concerned. It goes in now with lube and him eating me out but seriously is not enjoyable whatsoever and is very painful, and my vaginal lips are always sore the next couple of days! weirdest thing. No matter what research I do I cannot find any help! none of my family is allergic to latex either so that can't be a factor . someone please help!

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  • Mario24
    8 years ago

    After 10+ times it should not be that painful. As you said that you are using lubricants and having foreplay. You might need more lubricant if the pain is with burning sensation.
    As it is about your body, I will suggest you to consult a gynecologist.
    I hope you have your problem solved.

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  • JoeMayhem
    8 years ago

    all of my gf said it hurt. Never went away. it could be a matter of the guys size some women have a harder time accommodating.

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  • hfaoisdhfihwehr
    8 years ago

    Sounds like you have Vaginismus. Look it up its a real medical condition.

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  • Sweetpe
    8 years ago

    Yes right no condom isn't that bad it's not really as easy as they say to get a girl prego just don't fill her up you'll be fine(pull out method) just for testing anyways

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  • nicksimmons
    8 years ago

    Have you tried without a condom. just to see what happened. or maybe just no deep penetration. take your time. if that doesn't help visit a clinic and speak to a doctor.

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    • controllingandloveit
      8 years ago

      Dude she could get pregnant. Not good

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      • nicksimmons
        8 years ago

        i agree.

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        • MisterPapaya
          8 years ago

          Just throwing this out there: if she's so tight and/or he's so big they are risking breakage of the condom anyway. This alone would be a reason to investigate the issue, let alone the pain.

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          • wistfulmaiden
            8 years ago

            How about sponge and spermicide?

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