Pain turns me on

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I have a fetish for pain both giving and receiving or watching I have read up on sadomasochism so I understand what the fetish is.

So I at least I know I am not the only person in this world who has werid indulgences or hobbies.

I wondered is it something ones is born with or something that comes later on in life I am aware that it's not a social norm that most people are into and was just wondering?

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  • Psychopath666
    5 years ago

    I am a sub/masochist this is normal, it sounds like you might be a sub and masochist as well :)

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      Right on the mark.

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  • TheOishome
    5 years ago

    Find a safe environment with like-minded people who share your fetish. Simple as that, have fun!

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    BDSM is about power expressed via giving & receiving pain and/or humiliation, with or without sex.

    Given that most of us grow up in families where adults have power over us and often abuse it, including sexually, it's not surprising this results in some of us seeking out similar situations in adult life.

    There are comparatively healthy ways to express these desires, including being very careful who you play these games with, having safe words, using safe sex, not doing anything which results in permanent damage and not playing when drunk or drug affected.

    Personally, when I was very in the BDSM scene many decades ago, I noticed far too many dominants who become control freaks because the power goes to their heads and far too many submissives who end up not being able to speak out about abuse.

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      Thank you for the concern I deal with others every so often who share my desires be it doms or subs and we are very very careful when we partake in certain actions which are extreme to say the least.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    It seems like you are punishing yourself for something you did or using pain to escape some painful memories.

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      What like emotional trauma or something a lot happened in my childhood but it's things I learned to get over.

      It could be sub conscious but I kind of doubt it most problems I have in life I try to ignore or completely disregard.

      But I will say that I do love emotional torment of myself and others at times it feels like I'm high from it and puts me in a good mood when the rush comes down.

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  • Scrubxxx
    5 years ago

    Dude you aren't the only one... Do you like inflicting or receiving or both??

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      Both.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Fuck social norms!! Life is about having fun! Do it, if it pleases you. Just remember to send me the bloody, bloody videos when you’re done ;)

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      Lol I like you.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Thank you, likewise;)

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      • theodorephuccer
        5 years ago

        i want to have sex with you ;) 8=> O:

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    • lordofopinions
      5 years ago

      You're a sicko!!

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        I do believe “psycho” is the word you are looking for, dearest ;)

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        • SeekNPlay
          5 years ago

          Explain why you think you are a psycho?

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            I love how you edited this comment :)

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            • SeekNPlay
              5 years ago

              That has nothing to do with what I asked!

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    • Alichael
      5 years ago

      You can have fun without harming someone or breaking the law.

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  • Notderanged
    5 years ago

    You are a being born of pure evil.

    It comes later in life.

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      Evil is when you kill someone evil is to force yourself on someone who dosent want it evil is committing horrid acts like genocide and the like.

      I am not guilty of these things so how am I a being of pure evil.

      I admit that I can be alittle morbid and my tastes come of as depraved but I wouldn't force myself on someone who dosent want it I would never kill anyone so how dose that make me evil?

      Am I Werid yes emotionally disturbed maybe but evil I am far from it.

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      • SeekNPlay
        5 years ago

        What things are you into?

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        • TheBlindInquisitor
          5 years ago

          I like it when who ever I am with can be creative but I'll give a little hint.

          I am very much into whipping or in some cases needles if you get what I mean by that or feeling jolts of electric shocks.

          The list goes on but the more pain inducing for me and a willing person the better.

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          • spunkluvr
            3 years ago

            Love needles, nettles, and cigarette burns.

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    • Ellenna
      5 years ago

      NOBODY is born of pure evil, what utter garbage

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      • joe-schmoe
        5 years ago

        Me? I AM the evil. My soul is as foul and black as Satan's stool sample.

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        • joe-schmoe
          5 years ago

          So before you act like you know what you're talking about, spend some time with an absolute monster.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      And it’s a beautiful thing!

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    True, however a summary would have been nice.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Conversation at its finest

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  • TheBlindInquisitor
    5 years ago

    Who is Allison Mack?

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  • SeekNPlay
    5 years ago

    I like giving pain but I am too narcistic to be on the end of getting it.

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      You never know until you tried it.

      It might be unbearable at first but once you start to feel the rush it's like a drug.

      Personally it's the closest thing I get to happiness in this world.

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