Outing myself,now angry at guy at the bar?
I did a huge mistake for outing myself to this guy at a bar. We were talking all good then I decided to open my mouth. I told him I was a pre- op transgender guy and I have a beautiful fiancé who excepts me.
He told me
"I'm not a guy and that I have XX chromosomes. Oh and said I'm a confused buch lesbian that's tricking my girlfriend to be lesbian."
I told him that, "that's bull shit." "I'm strait and she's strait." "I'm not a fucken LESBIAN!"
He then told me, "no sorry mam but I will continue calling you a she."
He kept blabbering about how his brother who is gay made their mother have a heart attack. She didn't literally but was hurt. She was expecting her other son to be married to a woman instead of a man.
Then he said, "gays make me sick!!!" "It's sick to have sexual relationships with the same sex."
I told him that being transgender is a whole different thing.
He said, "gays and transgenders they all make him sick. If you were born male stay male or female stay female." If you like the same sex, force yourself not to."
Like what is wrong with him? I never said I wanted to be transgender. All I said was, I am transgender.
He then told me he hopes my girlfriend will leave me for a real man. "A man who can have kids with." "A biological male with the ability to have intercourse with a woman." "She's missing out on a beautiful experience."
She's being taunted by being sexually involved with me?
That doesn't even make any sense? She chosed to love me. This guy honestly was really pissing me off. I fucken left. I couldn't take much more of it. I had to go home. I had to let out my emotions out. Crying really helps. I'm ok now guys. It just got to me Thinking, why would she be with me if I'm not biological male? Why not be with a real man? I felt hatred inside. I even at the moment hated her. I would never take my anger out on her. That would be wrong. I don't want to be an abusive asshole who uses his girlfriend as a punching bag. Even though I felt like that, I never would do that. I'm ok now guys but I just had to vent. My girlfriend and I are fine. I actually gave her a kiss. Telling her I love her. She said aww babe. :) I'm guessing she liked that. I'm so sensual sometimes lol.