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i always hear people talking about how they have more than one orgasm. but when i masturbate i cum and then im done. and then i cnt keep going no matter how bad i would want to. and after im done i always think that what i did was wrong. is that normal? will it be like that when i have sex?
Are you male or female?
It is physically harder for males to have another orgasm after the one they've just had because of something called the refractory period.
But in females this is not the case,
however, although pysically capable of doing it, it won't always happen. Especially when the orgasm builds up too fast and releases too fast, it's easier to feel completely turned off once you reach it.
I've noticed that a longer build up and restricting your own orgasms right before they are about to happen, then build up again, and again and... provides a much stronger orgasm with no turn off effect afterwards.
But maybe that's just me.
Orgasms are 100% psychological. All depends on your frame of mind. Don't worry about it and you'll enjoy yourself. If you have hang ups you'll end up frustrated. Go with the flow.