Orgasm virgin

I've tried masturbating and using different things to stimulate myself, but I've never had an orgasm either. I'm 20, and my boyfriend spends lots of time on foreplay and we have lots of sex, but I just can't seem to get off no matter what I do.

I don't know it=f it's normal, but you're not alone. And it sucks.

Woah Girl You're so not alone. So I guess its normal.

I think a lot of girls have that problem. I have the best orgasms by myself, most guys no matter how awesome the sex is just can't get me off. Every once in awhile one will and it is awesome. They just can't give you exactly what you want when you want it. They aren't mind readers. An orgasm is such a good feeling though, you ought to play with yourself a bit to experience one.

First you need to not stress out about having an orgasm. I believe that a female orgasm has so much to do with mind over body.
Next, figure out how to masturbate. there is no "right" way. Just spend time with yourself.
Buy a vibrator, they really help and make it feel less intimidating. A woman's clit is a GOD SENT.I am certain that you will find a way to cum through your clit.

Now, vaginally, about 1 in 3 women can't have an orgasm through penetration. Think you're alone? Think again.

Try using toys

i have no idea of the... normalness... of that, but i have a female friend who has told me that no matter hove long she has sex/masturbates, she never orgasms. she's 19. so what im getting at, i suppose, is that youre not alone.

You need to masturbate and be able to pleasure yourself. At that point you can try open communication with your partner, tell him what feels good. I'm sure it's normal however to not have had one but orgasms are amazing, try buying a vibrator or if you are shy just buy a back massager and give it a go by yourself.