Orgasm from imagination

My boyfriend of three years can't make me orgasm. We are both virgins but we do everything else, just no penetration. He spends a lot of time giving me oral but I don't come close to coming! But its not like I can't... I had three orgasms before from just imagining things... I am sexually attracted to girls but haven't been with one. So I thought about them and BHAM. Orgasm. I know I am not a lesbian because I am very attracted to him... Is it normal that no matter what technique he uses and how long he spends down there I can't come close but if I just use my mind it just happens? I don't try anymore because it feels like I am being unfaithful in a way. The first time I had an orgasm I thought I burst a blood vessel down there from the throbbing sensation because no guy made me feel that way!!!

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  • ComeFlyWithMe

    If you're sexually attracted to both girls and boys you are bisexual, not a lesbian, and not straight. But whatever you want to call yourself, it's normal to be able to orgasm from using your imagination.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Is this a serious question? Yes if you are easily turned on.

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  • You're probably bisexual. Completely normal. Maybe you just want to explore with some girls? I don't really know.

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