Orgasm denial
My husband and I practice orgasm denial for him. It was something I first suggested as our sex life had become very boring and therefore sex had become a rare event, about half a dozen times a year at best. I discovered it on the internet and persuaded him to try it. Basically we agreed that we would indulge in some sort of sexual activity at least 3 times a week, but more if I decided. I would decide when and what we did but he was only allowed to cum when and if I said so. At first he used to cheat by getting himself off without my permission. We agreed the only way to stop that was a chastity cage and so we spent time investigating this option and breaking him in to using one. I now have a wonderful sex life with lots of orgasms every week and regular tease and denial sessions for him. I told him some time ago that he will only now be allowed one orgasm per week maximum and that will depend on his behaviour and my mood. More recently I have decided to deny him most weeks and reduce him to once or twice a month maximum. So far he hasn’t made too much fuss about this so I’m thinking of seeing just how far I can push him. He has become very obedient and now does nearly all the housework, he used to do hardly anything round the house. Sex is so much more fun these days and I have just recently started to experiment with pegging him. He doesn’t like this aspect but I’ve made it clear it’s the way forward for him because I said so and I’m the one who holds his key.
| He should be allowed one orgasm about every 6 months. | 0 | |
| He should be allowed one orgasm a week. | 3 | |
| I should aim for permanent orgasm denial. | 2 | |
| He should be allowed a maximum of one orgasm a month. | 1 | |
| He should be allowed one orgasm per year. | 1 | |
| He should be allowed one orgasm every 2 or 3 months. | 1 | |
| He should be allowed one or two orgasms a month. | 0 |