Opinions please
so, my bf is a computer science major and I probably should've seen this coming. We've been together since 9th grade and now we are in college.
We both grew up in a poor neighborhood and we were both very unmotivated to stay in school. I am at a community college and he lives in UCI now.
SO, the issue..
he is unmotivated to continue his studies because he has been failing some classes and I can't seem to cheer him up since I am currently going through depression from previous abuse. He says he understands but is very frustrated that he is always turning to his friend and not me. Seems like im never around anymore and he is growing accustomed to ranting to his friend and being more above me (UNI vs CC) now that it's been me struggling for 3 years. I take in his advice but i seem to push people away, so it is more of my own issue.