On your friend's wedding day, is it normal to feel upset.

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She was my best friend at college. we both got boyfriend there. After graduate, we were apart but still keep in touch. She called me a few days back to invite me to her wedding day. is it normal to feel upset because she get to marry with the love of her life while I end up breaking up with my boyfriend. I should be happy for her but I can't. I don't want to be a bad friend.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Yes, you were right. I should be grateful for what I have and work for what I do not have.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    I feel bad about myself. How can I be like that. I should be glad that she has found happiness.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    It's normal to have this little feeling but don't let it dominate. A little part of you says that you deserve more than her to be happy in love etc.. It's normal I think but you must not let these thoughts rot your mind. Your friend has taken maybe the most important decision in her life - she will commit to stay forever with someone and I think that she deserves better fron you.

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