Omg single mother of three!?!

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ok when my husband and i first got together i knew he had two sons from a previous marriage but he told me they lived at his mothers and wouldnt be around. we married about three years ago and have a 3yr old girl together. all of a sudden he is fighting for custody to get out of child support and having to play daddy to these kids and bring em home. he loves his sons to the best of his ability but he drags these kids home and expects me to solely take care of them while he plays video games with his buddies. at this point i really resent these ill behaved get away with murder little brats and want at least for their "FATHER" to shoulder some of the responsibility or them out of my life. Is this normal?

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    This could be an opportunity for you to step up as a mature adult and be a mother to children who obviously need a good mother.

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  • Gardenia
    13 years ago

    It's not normal Hun. I say you and the other baby momma get together and screw his ass over. Child support!

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  • happyB
    13 years ago

    Everyone who writes a post like this always resents or hates the children in the situation, when in fact the kids are the ones in the crappy position. Not only did these kids not ask to be brought into the world and be raised in a broken family, they did not ask for a father that ignores them and a step mom that resents them.
    Everyone is always so surprised and upset that the kids misbehave, but how are they supposed to act when they are being raised without love and rolemodels and compassion and discipline?
    The parents in this situation need to be involved and caring individuals, not resentful or sitting around playing video games and ignoring children.
    You married a man with kids. You must be prepared to accept and care for the entire package. You are a mother of a 3 year old, you should know by now that all kids need love and respect and someone to teach and lead them.

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  • Sil3nt_The_Apathetic
    13 years ago

    You knew that was going to happen eventually.
    It's your own damn fault for marrying someone with kids, if you didn't plan on having to take care of them. Dads these days are deadbeats, it's hard to imagine that you didn't foresee this in the first place.

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    • wistfulmaiden
      9 years ago

      She doesn't deserve it. I personally don't date guys with kids but because she did, doesn't mean she asked to become a maid / nanny.

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    • SoloDad
      13 years ago

      wtf idk about all dads being deadbeats some of us are trying no matter how much of a struggle it is but this guy needs to wake up he has 2 kids now and that means responsibility does he have a job? it doesnt sound like it if he's sitting around playing video games with all his mates and when kids come into the situation things have to change. i suggest you take your own child on a "holiday" for a couple of weeks and leave him alone with his kids if he can't handle that then you know what has to be done

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    What a jerk he is. You should go on a vacation for a week or more and see how he likes it. Adult men who play video games all day need their ass kicked! If I were you I'd break his game system and tell him to grow up. GOOD luck and remember, you may be the only actual adult these kids know.

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  • doggystyle357
    13 years ago

    There are his kids... He has to help u with the load.

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  • Mayfair
    13 years ago

    Where are the kids' mother? You should sit your husband down and have a serious talk with him and tell him that either he starts doing his part looking after "his" kids, or it's going to be just him and them because you are taking your daughter and leaving. That should get his attention, but you have to mean it and follow through, don't just make idle threats.

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    I think its normal, although it isnt the childrens fault. Of course you resent having to take care of them with no warning. Do try not to take it out on them though. If I were you I'd have a proper go at my husband for getting custody of kids if hes not going to be a father to him.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    It's your husband that is the problem. Remember that!

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  • Keir
    13 years ago

    You need to speak to your husband, and not be a witch to the children. Maybe if you all incorporate family time instead of your hubby playing video games with his friends and you pouting about it you may learn to love the children.

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  • familyguy63
    10 years ago

    it makes you much more attractive,to a man that is! he's still a boy,and soon you will leave him behind as life goes forward. hang tuff sweety

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    • charli.m
      10 years ago

      You are one of the biggest retards I have come across on this site.

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      • familyguy63
        10 years ago

        I don't give a rats ass what you think or say ! if you don't like what I post,don't read them.im. not here to please your fat ass. .....peace

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        • charli.m
          10 years ago

          Clearly you're not here to make any attempts at passable communication, either.

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  • DhGlory
    12 years ago

    The first response to this is why being male sucks... Fucking callous bitches.

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