Older turns me on

im sexually attracted to older men and women both is it normal ?

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77% Normal
Based on 350 votes (268 yes)
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  • bunnies_rock

    Kom, you're an idiot.

    I am married to a man 27 years older than me. I don't think I'm "too good" for anyone and I am not using him for money (as he has none).

    I don't know you, but it sounds like you're being so negative here because you have your own issues.

    I am 25, most people in my age group are douche bags. Sure, there's good young people too, I just happened to fall for an older man. It happens.

    Also, before you present yourself to be so smart (because I have a feeling that's what you were going for) would you please learn how to spell?

    To answer the op, everybody is attracted to something different. You're as "normal" as anyone else :)

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  • CrazyNiteOwl

    it's normal honey, very normal, guys mature alot slower than girls do, most of the women on this planet are with older guys

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  • longisland

    i am exactly the same i am sexually attracted to much older men im 18 and im attracted to me in their late 30s and 40s i find that they want me more and feel more powerful. is this normal ? i still find guys my age attractive and all and wouldnt want to persue anything with an older man but just want to hook up with them coz they are such a turn on

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  • beneficialpest

    Whether you are male or female, do not listen to that person. He/She was way out of line, made an awful lot of assumptions, and was extremely rude too. I am shocked at his/her responses. Please don't feel bad about yourself and there is nothing wrong with being bisexual. It occurs in all species, not just humans.

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  • jerseyguy13

    Older is usually a turn on, especially when you're young and inexperienced. There's a certain level of kink to it and a thrill in bridging the gap.

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  • highfallen

    I'm 11 years younger than my husband, there's nothing wrong with it :)

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  • mae

    its very normal,, both myself and the majority of my friends crush on guys in thier 40's .. were still in highschool.. my mother is 22 years younger than my father and they are a great couple.

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  • Chicken_Chaser

    I am attracted to older men as well. It's not that their more understanding and what not; it's that they are sexually attractive to me. Not older like in the 50's, but early forty's and thirty's. It is an add on though that they are mature. Boys my own age are extremely immature still, and I am not attracted to them at all. I don't date anyone older than 2 years though because 1 too young and 2 mom won't allow it.

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  • icy_blue52

    I am very turned on by many (not all) older men. Do much in fact I married one 16 years my senior!! There is doych to out relationship though. I never felt much of aaaanmmmyyyttthing for a guy my age. I just hatred everything they had to offer. My best relationships were always with guys considerably older

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    • LovingTogether

      Whatever turns you on is great and normal as long as you stay withing the law. As Nike says, "Just Do It!" Jim

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  • countygirl72

    I Am a 38 year old women Living with a 25 year old. My boyfriend tells me alot of guys would liketo be with an older woman. He told me that was always his fantasy he just did not plan on falling in love with one..... To be honest the age thing bothers me a little more after all I have a son 4 years younger then him. But we have an amazing relationship, and the sex is crazy crazy amazing..

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    • zarak007

      do you have any older frined interested to marry with young guy ? please let me know if some one help em

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  • doomdonut

    Are most people bisexual / attracted to old people?
    Then no it's not normal

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  • grandpaisking

    am 40 and told very attractive and have always enjoyed oral with women, but can't resist guys 50 and older with fat cocks and they seem to find me pretty desirable. But I can't get turned on by younger guys, no matter how impressive their cocks. The other night I chose an old guy, not good looking at all, over a beautiful 25 year old. The old guy's cock was just so thick and that was the winner. Young guy got seriously pissed off that I would go for the old guy, who found it a huge turn on that his cock turned me on so much. Do others out there find an old cock more desireable as well?

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  • davegrohl

    pretty normal
    im 22 and i had a sex partner of 45 haha
    she turns on pretty fast and that's awesome man.. they enjoy it big time, and that makes it easier and better

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  • redbearman

    I know what you mean, I'm a guy and I have always been attracted to older women. This is because women in their twenties seem immature and childish, whereas older women know who they are, what they want and can have great conversation. Older women rock!

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  • Schythl

    Age is just a number. Don't let it stand in the way of love.

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  • me too. guys my age are so conformist. I think older men are more confident, so they feel like they don't have to be like every other guy, and follow stupid trends and such.

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  • oldclitty

    At my age Im attracted to younger people I enjoy the response to my expierence

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  • LuffySp

    I think a lot of people are. Igore that Kom guy. Bisexuality is totally normal. Anyway; I think as long as you're both legal (ie. ABOVE 18) then its cool.

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  • beneficialpest

    Sure it is. Now if you write in wondering if the attraction you feel for goats and goldfish is normal, older or not, then we probably have a problem. Lol

    Maybe you just like people with some accumulated wisdom! :)

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  • shakenbake855

    i too am sexually attracted to older women..the more wrinkles they have on their face their better YUMMMM

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  • I'm turned on by older girls but thats because they're more slutish ;)

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  • mcdougle

    douchbag

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  • Kom

    I was just telling the aweful truth about this standard problem most young girls have. This is not the first time some young girl claims she likes older men, there is a reason for it and pointless being "understadning and supportive" sometimes the truth needs to be told like it is. I think she posted here knowing full well that she will recieve no condemnation for this and the usual crap of "be yourself" and its "ok tyo be a deviant"

    Let me respond to "beneficialpest". You said something very very strange. I quote "..nothing wrong with being bisexual. It occurs in all species, not just humans."

    Ok Stop press. What the hell is wrong with you. Are you insane? In some species like lions if the Alpha lion is beaten in combat by another lion then then the other new alpha male lion makes it a point to kill all the cubs of the perivious Lion. Black widow spider kills her mate after mating hence the name black widow. The dolphins are the only marine species that are know to kill for pleasure and fun and engage in rape. So are you nuts. Would wait around for some one to come to your house beat your husband senseless and kill your kids and then marry him. Jesus. The animal kingdom is a bad example and you just can't use that and compair them to humans. Please do not reduce us or this very confused lady tothat standard. And while you are at it spreading for far left wing liberal gay rights issues think about her parnets. They are threal victems of the childs behaviour. NO ONE THINKS OF THE PARENTS. Why I wonder does no one understand that they are humans too. Just THINK abouthwat this will do to them. Ask them discuss with a counsellor or a Phycologist.

    Please there is hope. Good news is you are Bi, so you dont have to go after older women. Bads news is that it is obvious that you have made up your mind to go down this path. Because your questions is retorical as you knew there will be support for you here. So it was pointless asking here. But if you have any common decency at least consider the impact on your family and yourslef. Try and be NORMAL and hang otu with guys your age. You are not too good for them. Yes older men may seem attractive as they are more sure of them selves and have reached a degree of finanacial success etc, but here is the kicker, by know if they are so good why are they no married and settled down with kids. Why are they unable to find a women in there age group or were they married and divorced because they were dicks. So think about it, which mature man would want to adte a younger women. One who would want a fling or a guy who can not attract a women in his age group. These guys may seem attractive right now but they may have their own hidden problems thats why they are looking for a younger women.

    SO USE YOUR HEAD AND TRY AND PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD BE NORMAL

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    • zarak

      actually i forgot to mension im 27 guy

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  • Kom

    No I don't think itis normal. Di you see average run of the mill young girls your age attracted to men and women. You are a bi sexual deviant and THAT IS NOT NORMAL.
    Otherwise we all would be bisexual. Also the older men thing is typical of girls who either are full of them selves and think they are too good for people in the their age group.

    Let me guss you think you are too Mature for your age right. something on those lines. That is a load of crock and you know it. Young women like yourself may / may not have some daddy issues but I assure do not be self congratulatory and start think your are too good for people in your age group. Don't be a snob and actually grow up and act your age rather than pretend and pose to be some one who is too mature. I have see people like you specially girls, its always the girls who think they are too good for people in their class and just grow up to sluts and side shows. Get help and cure your bi sexual disorder and be normal and hang out with people in your own age group.

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  • jreilly09

    r u a boy or a girl because if u r a boy it is nasty whaching old man

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