Older relations

It's very very common for survivors of child sexual assault to not only be vulnerable to people like the abuser/s but to get involved sexually with them and/or to be out of control sexually. I speak from personal experience and also from what I've learned from other women: it may be true of men also, I don't know.

My own theory which I worked out myself and then found it was already known to counsellors, is that if you are sexually aroused at an age when you aren't mature enough to deal with the emotions involved, it's likely your sexuality will be beyond your control later on.

Please note that in using the term "sexually aroused" in relation to victim/survivors I am in NO WAY excusing perpetrators, but many are clever enough to do what they do in a pleasurable way for the victim even though the s/he doesn't want sexual contact with them: this is one of the issues which fucks us up sexually later on.

If you haven't had counselling from a sexual assault expert I'd suggest you do so. Don't put it off, please: the longer you delay the more entrenched the patterns will become and the harder they will be to deal with.

Yup.
It happens more often than you think.
Even back in my hayday in the 1980's , I was in my early 20's and 16 and 17 year old girls were hitting on me.
Young chiquita's being attracted to older men makes them feel more grown up and secure.
Women marry men 20 - 40 years older than she is , especially if he is rich.

sounds more like you were a willing participate and were not assaulted. if you were an unwilling participate, then you were assaulted. if you wanted the sex and regretted it afterwards, that is not assaulted. that is regret sex.

There is a big age gap between u but it's hard when u want pleasure. If I are going to do it with older ppl then fist it's understandable cause u need someone with experience to make u cum hard, but for me there is to much of an age gap . But 2 if ur gonna do it make him fuck u hard and good , get him to lick ur pussy and ass and make u super wet. Then get him to gently smack ur tits and suck them . Then I hope he made u cum and have an organism

Its something really hot whether you are a woman or a man when older because , sure when a person is 18-35 you should look hot and attractive. But a 50 plus year old woman thats very sensual and sexy with a tinkle in her eyes and has curves....I think that is super hot and I would want to sleep with her more than a 25 year old woman ANYDAY of the week!

I believe it's normal for girls to be attracted to older guys regardless.

It could be because you were sexually assualted and you actually enjoyed it.

Because to be honest, why would you like older guys if you hated them for sexually assaulting you?

I think you're just naturally attracted to older guys. Which is normal