Older guy likes me?

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I'm in my 20s, but at work, I always catch this guy looking at me and hes about 50 years old. He stares for a good 5 minutes and he comes in at least once a week. He just sits and stares. It's completely creepy. When I work at the cash register, he often comes up quick and smiles really wide, says hi and then is dead silent shy.. I know he has some sort of problem because he dresses oddly and he obviously is weird for being shy and staring at me.

I even caught him on the street and he passed me and smiled super wide it was creepy.

He does this to no one else I work with. Why is this and how do I get this attention away from me? It's so creepy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    carry pepperspray in case he tries to rape yoou !

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  • christophero1973
    12 years ago

    It's normal for older men\women to like younger men\women. Your in your 20's and that makes you eligible to date, like it or not. He may not even like you in a sexual way. Maybe you remind him of his daughter\niece or wife when she was younger. Is he a widower? Imagine yourself at 50 years old, looking at a guy in his 20's, who might think you are creepy. Have a reasonable conversation with him, tell him you are not intrested and don't be a judgmental bitch.

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    if he is slow just be nice to him it is not normal but he prollie isnt dangerous

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Perhaps talk to him, make sure he is normal and perhaps it will stop you wondering about him and what hes like and whats wrong with him and why he is staring at you constantly.

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  • calicopenguin
    13 years ago

    That is a little weird... I think you should just stay away from him for a little while, atleast untill he proves himself to a nice, normal, dude.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    12 years ago

    wink at him and ask him if he likes chicks with dicks.

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    • Muhammadkolin
      12 years ago

      What the ...
      your idea is a shit

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  • ariana_mia
    11 years ago

    That Christopher guy is right. Don't be a judgemental bitch. >.> Maybe talk to him, if you feel uneasy do the pepper spray thing. But don't spray him for no reason. He might be lonely :(. Tell him nicely, that you feel uncomfortable when he stares. Chances are he'll apologize and whatnot.

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  • What'sright
    11 years ago

    Tell your boss about the problem. Let your boss know this guy creeps you out.

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  • kittyg7113
    12 years ago

    Trust your instincts. Maybe ask some co-workers if they know anything about him, to find out if he's harmless. If it's possible, have somebody else do the register when he comes up. It doesn't sound like a huge reaction is necessary, but you should definitely pay attention when somebody's presence makes you feel weird.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Its quite simple offer him a blow job followed by some arse to mouth action with the promise that he will leave you alone after it. If you dont do this chances are he will wear your head for a hat and keep your body on his sofa and pretend that he is married to your corpse.

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  • FluffieBunnie
    13 years ago

    It's normal for an older guy to be attracted to a younger woman, but not to behave inappropriately and make you uncomfortable like this guy does. I would try to avoid him.

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  • Scrat
    13 years ago

    RUN!!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    tell him hes gross and ugly

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  • brkb
    13 years ago

    I agree with the above poster, carry pepper spray, and you should also take some self defense classes(both of which are good ideas anyway). Tell someone you trust and a manager about this guy in case something happens. If he begins to be aggressive, go to the police.
    He probably is just slow and dosen't understand social contact though, so I wouldn't freak out.

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  • StrangeDuckDude
    13 years ago

    Get a couple of your bigger, more aggro male friends (guys your own age) to pay him a little surprise visit. That should get the old lech to back off from you.

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