Obsessing over my boyfriend's ex

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I'm such a jealous girlfriend. Like, I'll go on her Facebook and look at pictures and videos of her and her friends. I obsess over it, and I have no idea why. I'm obviously a much better match for my boyfriend, but I'm always comparing myself to her and her friends. I've never met her, and she lives in a completely different country, but if I saw her walking down the street, I would recognize her right away. It's not just her. I'm the same with a lot of his female Facebook friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I think this is normal because I used to be the same way. I would assume your insecure about yourself or your relationship. I agree with mtnw, just try to focus on your relationship and how good you are for your boyfriend and how good your boyfriend is for you. (:

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  • SomeRandomPerson
    14 years ago

    AND WE HAVE A STALKER.

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  • i♥you
    12 years ago

    wow! I feel the same way and I don't know how to overcome this! :(

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    i think you feel may feel insecure in your relationship.

    if your boyfriend can get over her, why can't you?

    though, i think it's normal to be interested in the ex-girlfriend.

    i would advise you to try to give this habit up, because it could be a constant source of upset for you.

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  • Icedangel11
    12 years ago

    You seem like the girl to create a fake facebook account to flirt with him to see if he's being unfaithful...

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  • sweet2
    12 years ago

    Your boyfriend should not have let you even know about his exs to begin with.
    Is he really over his exs? if that's the case, why would you be obsessing over? obviously you guys have an insecure relationship.
    It's normal for you to obsess over her if that is the case.

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